LostGirl11 Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I hate the summer with a passion. I want it to be over. If I could sleep through the entire summer, I would! Why do warm summer nights make me feel so depressed? They make me feel nostalgic. They remind me that I'm not sharing these nights with the one I love. They remind me of how lonley I am. I much prefer winter. If your heart is broken in the winter you can just curl up one the sofa in a blanket and watch movies, nobody notices your pain because that's what most people do on cold winter nights. I have another 2 months of this. How do I cope? 3
aloneinaz Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 By getting out of your house, live your life, socialize and meet new guys!
Fell4ItHard Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I couldn't agree with you more. I actually just walked outside on my porch and the pain was like a knife in my gut. It's so hot and sunny and beautiful, people out everywhere, smiling and enjoying life. I HATE it. I came back in, shut the door and almost lost it for a bit. I can't wait until summer is over so it doesn't feel like I am hiding away from my life. 2
Mr Scorpio Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 Oh how I remember those days. It got even worse for me in the fall. How did I cope? Sleeping in a lot and staying up late. How do I wish I had coped? Running outdoors. A lot.
theonlyjuan Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 Really? I always thought winter would be the worst, especially near Christmas time. Winter is cold, dark and miserable ( Here in the UK ) which is more than enough to make someone feel depressed. Try and get out and meet new people. You never know what might become of it.
JDPT Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 We tend to link everything and anything to the loved on we lost. It's a terrible feeling in my case anything, I mean anything can remind me of her so it's a daily battle. Enjoy the summer nights, redirect your thoughts, don't worry what your ex is or not doing, it'll be self inflicting torture. I redirect my thoughts every single time I think of my ex, trust me it's exhausting but necessary for survival.
iouaname Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 Same. I hate this summer. I have hated this entire year... 2
Nicoleiia Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I thought I was the only one who hated summer. All the couples outside holding hands, eating ice cream and what not. Teenagers in love and prancing around all happy. And then there's me, single like a dollar bill, at home alone. I can't wait till end of september..I will feel MUCH better! 2
Author LostGirl11 Posted July 13, 2013 Author Posted July 13, 2013 We don't have much luck with the weather here in the uk so when it's hot everyone goes crazy and makes the most of it. I just feel like shutting myself away! 1
JDPT Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 We don't have much luck with the weather here in the uk so when it's hot everyone goes crazy and makes the most of it. I just feel like shutting myself away! Don't that's one of the worst things you can do. I just literally forced myself to get out of the house after being home ALL day. I'm now at Starbucks at least getting some fresh air. Find your inner strength.
Author LostGirl11 Posted July 14, 2013 Author Posted July 14, 2013 Don't that's one of the worst things you can do. I just literally forced myself to get out of the house after being home ALL day. I'm now at Starbucks at least getting some fresh air. Find your inner strength. I know, but I've been doing it. I'm wishing the days away! I need to get out of this funk! This may sound stupid but when I wear a pretty summer dress or something cute, I don't like it because my ex can't see me, like, I feel it's wasted. He loved me looking nice for him! Hate him.
JDPT Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 I know, but I've been doing it. I'm wishing the days away! I need to get out of this funk! This may sound stupid but when I wear a pretty summer dress or something cute, I don't like it because my ex can't see me, like, I feel it's wasted. He loved me looking nice for him! Hate him. You should put on that dress so you can feel good about yourself only that's it. You will turn heads or get looks which is the ego boost you need now. I always feel great when I put on a nice, crispy button shirt and slacks along with a nice pair of shoes. I feel better about myself and get looks here and there, it definitely makes me feel good, at least for that one moment but hey at this point I'll take that until I get trough this rough process.
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