yutory Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 After I broke up with the guy because I just didn't feel that way anymore and him being clingy was getting to me. I broke things off cause it wouldn't be fair to him and it wasn't getting any better. So I told him we were done and the reasons said i was sorry and booked it. He was a nice guy had really great quality's any girls dream guy. We didn't contact each other for awhile and he did text me and stuff but i never responded. After a few months i went to a gathering of friends and he was there. We talked and i thought maybe he was over it. Recently he offered me a job that was a really good offer and started to talk to me and text me. But then he would sometimes text or say things a couple would say. He would also sometimes make moves to touch my face. I don't know what to make of this and not sure if he's trying to get me back or am i thinking too much. Cause we are friends I don't wanna have to hurt him. It also doesn't help that his friends also try asking me on skype since before he had a few admirers and now he still hasn't gotten a girlfriend yet.
JDPT Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 He is clearly not over you. You may be over the relationship to the point that accepting a job offer with him would not interfere with you performance at work but I'm certain he has ulterior motives. Save yourself future grief and walk away, regardless of how "good" this job offer is.
Author yutory Posted July 15, 2013 Author Posted July 15, 2013 I also wanna know what does he want with me. It's been maybe a year since I talked to him or came back in to contact and suddenly when i do respond its like this. Where he's sending me mixed signals. Saying things that no friend would say in text. I don't know if he is wanting to be friends or he's trying to win me back. Should i confront this? I just don't want to hurt him and wreak anything left between us. I'm also a bit scared of confronting him about this cause i hate being guilty.
lessica Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 I commend you for caring enough to ask. It may be that he is a mixture of lonely/still got feelings for you. I would back away as much as you can.
xilver Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 I also wanna know what does he want with me. It's been maybe a year since I talked to him or came back in to contact and suddenly when i do respond its like this. Where he's sending me mixed signals. Saying things that no friend would say in text. I don't know if he is wanting to be friends or he's trying to win me back. Should i confront this? I just don't want to hurt him and wreak anything left between us. I'm also a bit scared of confronting him about this cause i hate being guilty. I seriously doubt he wants to be just friends. I wouldn't ask unless it is something you want. Assume he wants you back romantically in some way and look for those signs when you interact. Already touching your face is a huge sign. I think you already know the answer.
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