conzboneeus Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I think so. First date no awkwardness lots of talking smiling almost 2 hours. At end she turned and spread here arms wide and said give me a hug. So I did. Valet parking guy standing there so I wasn't gonna try to kiss here maybe cheek...maybe. Else handshake. Nice woman like to see her again. But...during our conversation we were talking about other dates and how they go (met thru online dating) and she mentioned that she had had lots of dates with men that were great dates and she had a good time, but she didn't want to she them again. To me, that's tantamount to saying to me basically the same thing. You're a nice guy, this is fun, but I'm not interested in another date. I mean I noted it right away. Myself, if I was interested in a woman I wouldn't say that for fear she may think same as I. So did I get the hint right? Me thinks so.
ChatroomHero Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I think so. First date no awkwardness lots of talking smiling almost 2 hours. At end she turned and spread here arms wide and said give me a hug. So I did. Valet parking guy standing there so I wasn't gonna try to kiss here maybe cheek...maybe. Else handshake. Nice woman like to see her again. But...during our conversation we were talking about other dates and how they go (met thru online dating) and she mentioned that she had had lots of dates with men that were great dates and she had a good time, but she didn't want to she them again. To me, that's tantamount to saying to me basically the same thing. You're a nice guy, this is fun, but I'm not interested in another date. I mean I noted it right away. Myself, if I was interested in a woman I wouldn't say that for fear she may think same as I. So did I get the hint right? Me thinks so. I think maybe you did. Its really hard to tell because one girl will do that and say it was her way of telling you that you were different. Another girl will say she put it out there for you to get the hint. My opinion is if someone says that regardless, she is not worth investing more time, money and emotion on. To me it is an inconsiderate thing to say and she would likely waste your time with mixed signals. If someone was really interested I think they would be a little more considerate than saying something as sh$try as that really.
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