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My brother's girlfriend has been living with us for about a month now. It's not going well. I'm trying to remain unbiased about her but she is getting on my mom's last nerve.

 

I will admit my mom is a diva, kind of annoying and a little crazy sometimes. However she is letting her with us rent free, pretty much with no obligations. So the least she could do is be respectful

 

This morning my brother said good morning to my mom. When Erin (his girlfriend) passed by my mom my mom said "Aren't you going to say good morning?" she replied " Aren't you going to say good morning to me?" I gasped.

 

I usually don't agree with my mom but that was really rude.

 

She's even made posts on twitter about us.

 

I started to think about my ex's family and thought if I had been respectful enough towards them.

 

I know I tried to make an effort.

 

Before we broke up his mom told him I was being cold and distant towards her the last time I saw her. I didn't even notice. I didn't make much conversation but I thought I looked normal. I was having a bad day but being rude to her was never my intention I wanted them both to know that.

 

There had been times when he would take me home and I wouldn't say good night if I was in different room from where they were

 

I figured if I had been rude he would have told me what's up and put me in my place. Not just break up with me.

 

Would that be a reason to break up with a girl?

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Why is she living there?

They're both living there rent free too, smh.

 

I personally would say something to your brother.

And if she didnt fix her attitude I will say something.

Well it seems like your mom should do this in this situation.

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Also my ex's sister is horrible to their mom so I would think his mom would know the difference of what's really rude but she's 14 and I'm 21 so I don't know.

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Talk to your mom about how it bothers you that his GF was rude to her to see what her feelings are about it or if she even noticed.

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why is she acting like that? has there been tension before? what does your mom say?

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Why is a fourteen year old girlfriend living with y'all?

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Why is a fourteen year old girlfriend living with y'all?

 

Sorry, I'm causing confusion. The 14 year old I'm referring to is my ex's sister, a different situation I mentioned. My brother's girlfriend who is the one living with us is 21.

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why is she acting like that? has there been tension before? what does your mom say?

 

My mom is ready for her to leave she already booted her out. Niether of them get along because they are both divas really. My brother's GF sent my mom this really nasty text after she left. Even if they don't get along that's just classless.

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