atomicdog Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 (edited) So I'm generally attracted only to women, but occasionally I'll find myself attracted to some guy I see or meet somewhere. Usually it's a looks thing (I'm into cute young looking guys with nice eyes, hair, etc.) Occasionally it's a personality thing (like a workmate who looked cute and had a really fun, quirky personality). I'm sure that some of those guys have been attracted to me also; I'm not bad looking myself. It's frustrating not being able to find out for sure whether a guy likes me, and not knowing how/when to make a move. I'm already shy enough pursuing women (especially when other people are watching), but with guys, it's doubly intimidating. I hardly know any gay people and I've had very little experience with other men. I guess one way is to try to form a friendship first and then see where things go. I just wanted to see if anyone else (male or female) has experienced the same thing, so we can share sympathies. LOL And if you have any tips/suggestions on what might be done. (BTW I'm a programmer, and I've been thinking of making a website or mobile app just for guys in this situation. If enough of us started using this, we could form secret liaisons, without other people having to find out about it.) Edited July 13, 2013 by atomicdog
furiousgreen Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 (BTW I'm a programmer, and I've been thinking of making a website or mobile app just for guys in this situation. If enough of us started using this, we could form secret liaisons, without other people having to find out about it.) What about Grindr? I understand it's very popular.
Author atomicdog Posted July 16, 2013 Author Posted July 16, 2013 Thanks for the tip, I'll check it out.
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