40 Fonzarelli Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 This is my main mode of meeting girls and it's tough. Even if I do get numbers, they flake or stop responding. Am I wasting my time? I go out every weekend.
Pyro Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I met my ex at one. We had a college class together the year before that but we never had talked then. FTR we split due to lack of common interests which made things very dull and boring. Rome wasn't built in a day and neither is finding the 'perfect' gal. Give it some time and try not to get frustrated in the process. 2
shexy Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 When I was in my early 20's yes. Now? Oh hell no!!!!!
USMCHokie Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I dated a girl for a little while that I met out in front of a bar. She approached me first.
Pyro Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I dated a girl for a little while that I met out in front of a bar. She approached me first. She probably thought that you were valet. 1
Southern Cal Dude Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 She probably thought that you were valet. I used to get that when I was a little younger. That and people asking me for directions. 1
hppr Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 This is my main mode of meeting girls and it's tough. Even if I do get numbers, they flake or stop responding. Am I wasting my time? I go out every weekend. Friend of mine met his wife at one. So I guess it can work. As far as getting numbers goes that is a waste of time, you are better off just trying to get them to come back to your place with you that night...rather than 'hi you are nice wanna chat next week?'...reason is that unless you are amazing they will forget about you half an hour later, hence the flaking/no response.
Steph321 Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I met my BF at a bar. We made eye contact and shortly after, he approached. We've been together over a year and he is such a fantastic guy. It's funny because I just found out recently that prior to meeting me, he has NEVER had success with meeting girls in a bar. All of his previous SOs have been mutual friends. Don't give up-- you just never know!
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