Natchitra Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 Hey, I met this girl a few months back and we really kicked it off a month ago. We both know we are interested in each other and hang out almost daily as well as talking/ texting throughout the day. This girl would be perfect except she dropped the bombshell that she is happy being single, and won't actually call this dating as it would negate her Being single. Now straight away I thought all the usual things: not over a ex, keeping options open, being nice. But she cornered up after saying that saying its none of these and she is interested just she doesn't want to be hurt and has this theory relationships only last 8 months. This likely comes out of her exs who 1, gave her a infection and the other just did not work out. I know I should probably drop this entire thing and move on, but is there anything else I can do? I know I'm not a jerk, and I am genuinely interested in this girl, I just feel if we keep doing this it isn't going to get anywhere. Have any of you experienced this? And how did you act to lead to a solution?
PogoStick Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 She's happy being single...until the right guy comes along (clearly not you). You're in the friendzone. Either be her friend. Or If you want a chance to be more, then you can't be her friend starting immediately. 2
D-Lish Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 She's happy being single= you're not the right guy for her. Maybe concentrate on making yourself happy and move on to someone that thinks you're worth the leap of faith.
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