Dazedandconfuz3d Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 (edited) Ok, I have been lurking on the forums here for a few days now trying to find some insight to my situation. Several threads have helped, kind of, but I would like to see what everyone thinks. So here goes. We are both 27 years old. We actually worked together several years ago until we both move in separate directions with work, and about 6 weeks ago we had hung out for the first time in a long time through a mutual friend. I really didn't see any interest from her initially, but she asked me if I would like to go out for drinks and a game at a local bar. It was great, so great I asked her out to dinner/movie. Went great again. This chick is amazing, we have several of the same interests and she always makes me smile. Something though that hit me first was her real lack of showing affection. I mean we had make out sessions, allways kisses goodnight/goodbye, but she just doesn't do the little touches of affection while just walking together, reaching for my hand (If I reach for hers, she will hold mine and it's fine), but just like it doesn't even cross her mind sometimes/most of the time. This is how she has always been since we had started dating. So fast forward to a recent date. Took her out to a very very nice restaurant, had drinks afterward at the local bar strip, and went back to her place. Going for a homerun, we were both pretty drunk and only rounded 3rd but no homer Not a big deal with me at all, I honestly really like this girl and I would wait until she was completely ready to take that step. Ever since that night last week, she has been distant, several hours in between txt. I would get good morning text, now nothing sometimes till 5 or 6 pm. I try not to be the first to txt her so as not to come off as needy. Ha, maybe that is what i'm coming off as, insecure? I know she had been busy with work this week and is going to a weekend music thing with her girlfriends this week, so she has really been looking forward to that. Is she losing interest with me? We texted quite often early on in the dating, and probably hung out way too much for just starting dating. So part of me thinks maybe she is, but then part of me thinks maybe going farther than she wanted to go in the bedroom she is pulling back a little? I just get that feeling...guys you know that feeling that something just is off? We have plans to hang out in a few days, and next weekend a day trip out of town. Should I ask her about it, or just play it cool and back off the constant texting, let her text first and see where it goes this week? Edited July 12, 2013 by Dazedandconfuz3d
todreaminblue Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I think you should leave it for this week and see how things go on the day trip ......best wishes...deb
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