PJKino Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I don't think life works like that, by categories and statistics. /QUOTE] You used stats as well and said how an average tall man is on the same levle as a really good looking short guy
Pompeii Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Depends on the woman. It was always more than good enough for me. And I know plenty of absolutely beautiful women with average and below average husbands. I don't know if we're on the same page here. When I talk about "average", I'm not talking about in terms of pure physical attractiveness. I'm talking about lifestyle, personality, status, monetary resources, etc.
Content Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I don't think life works like that, by categories and statistics. /QUOTE] You used stats as well and said how an average tall man is on the same levle as a really good looking short guy Dude height isnt nearly as important as she or you think it is now stop listening to people on here and make it happen for yourself!
pteromom Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I don't think life works like that, by categories and statistics. /QUOTE] You used stats as well and said how an average tall man is on the same levle as a really good looking short guy OK, I can see how it came across that way. I apologize. I didn't mean that they are on the "same level" as I don't believe in levels. Just that they would probably both have women attracted to them.
pteromom Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I don't know if we're on the same page here. When I talk about "average", I'm not talking about in terms of pure physical attractiveness. I'm talking about lifestyle, personality, status, monetary resources, etc. OK.... yeah, all that stuff adds up. But someone who is average in all those things can still find women who are interested.
pteromom Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Dude height isnt nearly as important as she or you think it is now stop listening to people on here and make it happen for yourself! Hey, don't lump me in there. I don't think height is important at all.
Content Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Hey, don't lump me in there. I don't think height is important at all. I know but telling somebody like PJ how much easier tall men have it really isnt gonna help him.
MrTurk Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 So if a 5'7 guy is in great shape and handsome the average looking tall guy will still have more options then him strictly becasue of height? Yes....for the most part. And no this isnt just my opinion. Its a proven scientific fact. Its also proven that tall men are more successful at work, get more promotions, and more raises than shorter counterparts. Society subconsciously favors taller people.
Eve Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I see the issue as inadequacy. It is the level of general inadequacy behind common features that make a person unattractive. Some people are attracted to inadequate people though.. they will try to fix them. Take care, Eve x
Revolver Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I didn't know we were. I thought we were talking about males in general. Even then, it depends on what your perception of success is. Is it being able to sustain a relationship for long periods of time? Is it being able to have sex with multiple women successfully? Is it just being able to have sex period? There should be a benchmark of "success" before this discussion goes any longer. What I have noticed is that most women think a guy's definition of "success" is finding "the one" and being with her forever but that couldn't be further from the truth for most young men. Exactumundo. I'd say success for women in the dating/mating context is the ability to secure a LTR(preferably marriage) with a Handsome successful man any time she wants For men, id say success in that same context is either being able to Play the field and sleep with many attractive women at a time or being Able to secure a LTR with an attractive woman when its time. So Hugh Hefner is considered successful doing his thing all these years and Ashton kutcher is considered successful locking down Mila kunis
somedude81 Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 Heh, threads like this are now just a joke to me. Number one rule in attracting women if you aren't "classically attractive," get lucky. OK no, it's not the only thing that matters. You have to be funny, bold, make connections and keep trying. Then the game changes a bit when the girl likes you and sensitivity and caring start to matter. What's most important is to hide the bitterness as deep as you can. If you are hiding it and enjoy being around women, no they will not be able to tell. Even though I'm nowhere near as bitter, depressed, angry as I was when I first started dating my GF, she has absolutely no idea about my issues. Now she is a very smart and perceptive woman, but I've been able to hide it from her. And now that I've spent a lot of time with her, I've actually become happy and there simply is no more bitterness to hide. The talk about nobody being able to love you until you can love yourself first is absolute BS. I crack up reading the responses to this thread and others like it because I realize that I was right all along. Everybody trying to convince me that I won't feel better when I got a GF, was full of sh*t LOL, I don't even remember what my point for posting in this thread was. Guess I just wanted to gloat
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