MegaMouth Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 (edited) Ok so I met this guy on a dating site. He seemed really nice. When we chatted on the site I didn't think he was interested in anymore that just chatting. Even his photos didn't give him justice. After a couple of weeks of sporadic chats. I let him know I was leaving the site and deleting my account. He offered me his cell number and odd as it was we started talking in the phone every night for about a wk and a half like almost all night sometimes. But never did we really talk about our feelings. So I kept mines at bey. I just thought I made a new friend. The we agreed to meet and everything went well. We have a connection. Obviously now I.know he is interested. But as soon as we met our conversations diminished and we mostly text now. We've been on like four or five dates in the last month mind you our dates are all nighters and our third date we spent 12hrs together. So getting to the point. After our first date we were texting and I said something funny to him. And his response was, "You are going to make me love you, aren't you?" He was at a party he said and had a few drinks. Then after out second date we had gotten really close if you know what I mean. The next evening he asked me if He should commit to me now or wait a little longer. I told him he had to answer that question for himself. Mind you we haven't regained the everyday talking on the phone like we had before we met. Our dates we wkly. As I looked back on our dates and our texts I realized from day one he really liked me and was hinting that to me all along but never said to my face. On July third we went on our last date and had fun. I tried to get him to tell me what we were doing and where this was leading but all he confirmed was that he liked me and that we were getting to know each other. My feelings have grown deep for him in a short amount of time. And I told him this a couple of days ago. He said he was happy to hear that and welcomes the ideaof me continuing to like him. He is really affectionate and sweet and makes me feel loved in a way when we are together (its not that often +4 times) I know this is new but he didn't acknowledge his feelings for me. Or tell me much on his part. I'm confused bc I was taking his hints and now I'm more confused bc he still isn't expressing himself to me. I invited him out on his bday next wk but thought I'd get to see him sooner but he hadn't asked me out. Though he said in the beginning, he was tired of being the initiator so I stepped up. We still hardly talk on the phone, but text sporadically each day. I'm starting to have stronger feeling for him. And bc he said nothing to me I feel embarrassed for confiding in him. One thing he did just ask me actually two things is 1) if I thought he'd fit into my life 2) because I told him I think I'm falling for him too soon. He asked me in my opinion what is too soon when it coked to liking someone. We hardly text yesterday. But today he sent me xoxox, and a second text that said hugs&kisses. And more hugs&kisses. But the was we are in our second month of knowing each other. And he often let's me know I'm a good woman and he wants to find love. But he also doesn't communicate his feelings to me and I am always unsure. What should I do now? I like him, but I don't want to be single forever I do have other prospects but honestly I am most attracted to him. Edited February 12, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs
RebelWithoutACause Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 He's not as invested as you are. It's simple You are confused because you're not hearing what you are expecting or wanting to be hearing from him. Step back a little. No need to fall for someone so quick, get to know their true intentions first.
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