PogoStick Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 After giving you the best O of your life I could find myself playfully asking if you remember me
gaius Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I'd like to know what's so awful about a woman saying she had a great time and now it's her turn to return the favor and plan a nice time for the guy? What's so wrong about that? Women are SO determined to never reciprocate, never do their fair share no matter what. What's wrong with so many women that they simply refuse the idea of equality. If a man is looking for a partner in life rather than a dependent, maybe he should just walk out on women who won't do their share. There are some decent ones around guys should seek out. Crude, it's not that it's awful for a woman to do that. A lot of women are just turned on by actually being the woman in the relationship. The submissive half. Having the guy take the lead. It's not up to them to change for a man who's looking for a more masculine partner than normal. The guy in Star's story will just have to find a great guy for him, whether it's one trapped in a woman's body or one with a real penis. 1
SJC2008 Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 (edited) I expect the three M's for a first date. Movies, McDonalds and the Motel! And you wonder why the commercial says I'm lovin it? In all serioisness if you're interested in your date ask him about himself. Don't talk about yourself the whole night. Lean into him every now and than. Touch his arm when making a point. Do all these things subtly of course. These curs should be plenty for a "clued in guy". You can also text after the date sayin thanks and you had fun. That should be more than enough. I would of laugjed at that giy who said you didn't contact him. Edited July 13, 2013 by SJC2008 spelling
white Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 You do all realise how incredibly passively sexist you're all being with this crap right? Women want to be submissive because that's so feminine and men have to be "hunters" (ughhhhh) blah blah ****ing blah? I mean you've forced me to have to tell you so maybe you don't know. Just ugh.
SJC2008 Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I HATE it when women pursue me. There's a huge difference in pursuing and showing interest. Showing interest=saying yes to dates, initiating some contact, flirting etc. I had a woman initiate 3 times to my zero after a first date and it was the biggest turnoff ever. The funny thing is tht during the date she said her ex was clingy lol. 1
EasyHeart Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 Wow, StarGazer found one of these "Why don't women ask me out?" guys in real life! I thought they only existed on LS. At the end of a first date, if I like a woman I usually say something like, "I had a good time tonight and would like to see you again. Is it okay if I call you?" and she usually squeals and jumps up and down and says "Yes, yes, yes!". Depending on my schedule, I might lock in a day right then. But I think the important thing about this guy in the OP is that there is no way he is even remotely compatible with SG. Someone who is this extremely passive needs a woman who enjoys 'being the man' in the relationship. You both did yourselves a favor by not going out again.
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