LoveinNEB Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 So i just started seeing this girl last friday. Things had been going great...that is until last night. I called her up and asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said she was heading down to a bar later that nigth to watch the NLCS baseball game. I told her that's cool, give me a call later (she wanted to see me) and we'll meet up at the bar. Well, 10 o'clock comes and goes, and i said screw this... i'm going downtown. So i called her up and left a voicemail and let her know i was going downtown. Midnight rolls around and i'm downtown (still haven't heard from her).... so i give her a call and she picks up. "where you at?" i asked... "the bar, watching the game... " (silence) Okay, so i'm taking it maybe she just wanted a night w/ her friends but if that was the case why not just tell me instead of hanging me on a thread all night long? Not to mention, she told me she would call me when she left the bars and surprise surprise, that never happened. It doesn't end there. She calls me up today and says she has a migraine and wondered if i'd go get her some medicine. Well, my mother gets those and i know how bad they can be so i told her i couldn't right now, but if she'd wait about an hour i'd be done w/ my classes and i could run and get it for her real quick before work. She told me that was okay and she would just get her sister to do it. Then before the conversation ended she promised she would call me tonight. So here is where i stand. Not really sure what's going on anymore. I don't like the fact that she wanted me to be her gopher after she stood me up last night, but like i said, i know how bad those can be so it didn't really bother me. My question is, if she calls me up tonight to do something should I? Or should i be the one that's busy this time.... i'm afraid i've become too available to her and not sure if i should play the game and back off a little bit. What do you guys think? I'd like to hang out w/ her tonight if she asks, but i definitely won't be asking her out anytime soon... input?
Butchey Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 I would go hang out with her. If you get the chance to talk about serious stuff let her know what you expect in a relationship. Don't refer to her but just in general terms. You should be honest about what you want because you are only seeing her recently. There is still allot of water to flow under that bridge.
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