lazysunday Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I met this guy at a bar during my business trip in overseas. He was also on a business trip and the country he is staying is pretty close to the country I'm staying. At first we started with giving out our names but we ended up kissing and heading to my hotel. In a taxi to the hotel, he confessed to me that he gave me a fake name. He apologised and told me what his real name is. At that point, I didnt really care much because I thought I wouldn't see him again. But we had such a great night, especially the conversation we had.. I really felt like we have lots in common. Next morning, he asked me if I wanna have breakfast with him but I had to rush out for a meeting so I gave him my business card. After coming back from the business trip, I found myself thinking about him a lot. It sounds crazy but I googled his name and found his work email. I emailed him saying that I am going back to his country next month and asked him if he wants to meet up for a coffee. 2 days later, he responded to my email saying " That sounds good - only thing is that I have 2 business trips and am on holiday for the second half of that month" He ended the email with asking me how was my rest of business trip and how I am doing after the trip. I responded to his email 1 day later. In this email, I specified the dates when I am planing to go ( I said I am attending a wedding so that he doesnt think that I am going there JUST to see him ) and asked him again " Can you see me on the 5th?" It has been 3 days since I sent him the email..but he hasn't responded to my email. I'm thinking... Did I look too clingy? Did he reject me saying that he is busy but I failed to catch that? Was it really just a "one night stand" for him? Should I just forget about him? What do you guys think?
Kamille Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Unless he replies, it is probably best to forget about him. We'll never be able to guess why he didn't reply but it could be a few things: it was just a ONS for him; he's involved with someone in his country; he's genuinely too busy; etc. I've been in this situation and I remember feeling like the "not knowing" why the guy disappeared was incredibly frustrating. It took me awhile but I got over it.
swenann991 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 it is obviously that guy is not very much interested.maybe he is married... any case, best is to forget him
Author lazysunday Posted July 12, 2013 Author Posted July 12, 2013 Thank you Kamile, I feel better after reading your comment.
JDPT Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 Sounds like you guys have pretty busy schedules that's essentially it. I wouldn't sit around and wait for an email from him, move along go about your business and if he replies great.
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