Mjm1014 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Met this girl at a nightclub that was talking to my friend and I..end of the night I asked for her number and she agreed to go on a date with me a few days later. Date was short/sweet, good conversation, she seemed nervous but was all smiles. At the end of the night I told her to let me know when she's free to hang out again and she said "I'm basically free every night." Then we parted. Two days later I text her (I should have called but whatever) and said: "was wondering if you wanted to see a movie tomorrow night. Let me know if you're interested" -I didn't get a reply until a day later which is weird because she seems like she's on her phone a lot She said: "sorry my friend will be in town and I have ladies nights booked every night the rest of the week. I'm deff interested and I'll deff let you know when I get some free time " I think it's just weird that she didn't set a date up for the following week, she takes forever to respond to me. If you're interested in someone wouldn't you want to talk to them at least a little? Should I take this as rejection? To be honest, I really am not thinking/care too much about it I'm just bored right now and curious what people think. Most girls that have ever been into me at least texted me and wanted to chat too which kind of gets me....ladies opinions
JackDrc Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Not a lady but pretty sure she's at least somewhat interested as long as you don't screw it up. She said that's she's definitely interested, and 99% of girls who respond after a first date and aren't interested will find a way to let you down. They won't lead you on. If she isn't interested that's a pretty huge bitch move on her part. The only other small possibility besides her being interested is that she wants to use you for food/drink.
Philosoraptor Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Be patient and don't allow yourself to obsess over it too much. She says she's interested and that she'll let you know when she's free. Take her words at face value and don't worry about it. If she wasn't interested she wouldn't have responded in such a cheery manner.
candie13 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 well, if I really like a guy, I would take longer than the usual to answer him, as well, you know . just go with the flow, let her know all's good from your side and... yeah, che sara, sara ! best of luck, enjoy !
RebelWithoutACause Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Give it one more try next week. Then leave it alone.
BluEyeL Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Invite her a few days in advance. Ask her out today for Sunday or Tu night. Give her a couple of options. Don't ask her for the day or for next day, she might have plans, as she did.
Lansing Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I would give it a good week before you contact her again.. she basically said to leave it in her court. If she is busy and you keep texting her it will come off as desperate. As others said, if you ask her out again try to give her a bit more notice. I don't like "movies" as second dates either. Find something you guys can do together and at least have a chance to talk. I typically take the "I am going to this event/place/etc, thought you might enjoy it, want to join me" type approach.
Recommended Posts