gwennebe Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 I am so nervous. I am going on a first date (lunch date) with someone today and I am so extremely nervous!! We have talked on the phone about 3 times this week and I don't think I have any reason to feel uncomfortable around him but still....... Anyone have any suggestions for me to calm my jitters so I don't blow it and act like a lunatic. lol. I should probably lay off the caffeine first most.
LoveinNEB Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 Drink some alcohol (although on a lunch date not sure if that's a good idea). On second thought, it's probably best to realize the entire time he is just as nervous as you. The best advice i can give you is to NOT be afraid of awkward silences that come up. Because they always do. It's how you react to them that shows whether or not it will work out. Do not force a conversation, but do not be too quiet... just act as if he's an old friend. Things will work out just fine
Author gwennebe Posted October 22, 2004 Author Posted October 22, 2004 Well, I'm back and it went fairly smooth. I think he was as nervous as me because he made the comment of wishing they served alcohol at the resteraunt we went to. I'm glad to say not even an akward silence and I got an invite for tonight. YaY! Go me.
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