tito1501 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 My ex-girlfriend wanted to broke up last year for some non-specif reasons , maybe the flame was fading. Nevertheless, she is still very friend of my mother and granparents. Six months after the broke-up , she sent me an e-mail( we have always treated each other well since we separated) with an attached picture of her and my granpas. Then she used the excuse in another e-mail that my mother had told her that I felt like meeting her dog, which I really like. That's true, I have already said that to my mother, therefore, my ex invited me to " go and see her dog " ( WTF?) . That's obvious she wanted to see me , talk to me or something like that. After an hour of conversation, I realized that all she wanted to know was if I was dating someone and who was a girl that I have been meeting lately, I told her that she was only a friend, in fact she is. Then I asked back, are you dating someone ? She told me that not and that she didn't feel like dating now, because she was looking for exchanging programs and that she didn't have time for anything because of work and university ( that's almost entirely true because everyone can live during saturday nights ). Yesterday she called me to get my house phone number to call my mother, I gave her... after their conversation my mother told me my ex is coming to have lunch with my granpas and my mother and that she will come home after that to have a good time with my mother. But OBVIOUSLY she knows I will be there because they are my family in a sunday. I don't know what to do, I would like to keep living my life well as I am doing...I still love her but I'm doing extremely fine without her, but when she appears in my life I kinda trumble. Should I attend to this lunch or should I go out with friends or something like that ?
MegaMouth Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Well this post is irrelevant now. But no matter what, choose to be with your family. Like you previously stated, you guys are cordial to each other. Make the best of it. And if you don't want anything from her, state it to her clearly, and don't sneer or ask her personal questions about either of your love lives. P.s. I believe she stays single hoping you will come back to her. Also I think you may be a little unsure of your feelings for her.
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