golk Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Hey guys its been a while since I've been on here. Been feeling a lot better and thought I'd be off the forums for good. But I recently got some contact from the ex and would like some outside opinions on it. Basically had NC from my side for 2 months but she would text me every few weeks, usually I ignored them. There was NC interspersed thoughout the 10 months as well but seeing each other at school ruined that. I was at the point where I made up in my mind that we wouldn't ever be together again and can truly say I'm pretty okay with things, but her saying things got me thinking lol. So I'm not sure if this is the "I made a mistake speech" or just crumbs.. Here are some of her texts to me.. How are you doing!? It's just been really hard lately being on this stranger status Yes we have but I mean... It hurts .. Like i really still care a lot So u really think too much **** went down I didn't! One person. That's it. Total. I've just been single. Not seeing anyone or wanting to be with anyone but still heart aching for you I understand and I don't wanna go thru that again but I feel differently about a lot of things that's kind of why I wanted to see if u wanted to stop over and talk but I understand. Not the right time If I could take it back I would. Just super nostalgic about it... I stuck to my word and am trying out the single life like I wanted but I ultimately realize I was happier with you I just wish something could work out but It's wrong time or i just missed my chance I've been alone and by myself for a while and im OK with that but just really truly appreciative of what we had it was so genuine and that's what I wish I didn't give up on I did. But I needed to be by myself for a while . Made me appreciate it on another level It's nice to have been reconnecting and spending most of my time with friends but there's still a void that's irreplaceable I'm sorry.. I wish you could take my word for that but I do understand So what do you guys think??
Philosoraptor Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Did these all come at once or over a short period of time? If so she could have just been dumped or turned down by someone. I'd continue to be patient if it were me.
Author golk Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 Did these all come at once or over a short period of time? If so she could have just been dumped or turned down by someone. I'd continue to be patient if it were me. That thought did cross my mind. I even asked her if that was the case and she said no its not that at all... But you can never be sure of these things. She texted me probably 3 weeks ago twice asking if I wanted to catch up. But when I never responded she said if you don't want to its totally fine i just wanted to say something. Then she asked how I felt about us probably 1.5 weeks ago. Then I got these a few days ago... She told me she tried to tell me when she first contacted me 3 weeks ago but idk
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