Why does he still spends time like im still his gf

[rebecca vargas]

Ive been dating this man for 5 months now, which he was single at the time, but then broke it off due to his ex comming back to the picture. She insisted for him to get back together which they did. They are dominican and since im Puerto Rican his mother did not except me, putting pressure to our relationship cause him to get back with his ex, which his mom adores. However we decided to remain friends, but he still insistes in seeing me everyday, talks to me daily and wants to make love every other day. He began living with his ex again but she lives 45 min away from where i live and where he works, i spend more time with him then he does with her, he would only see her everynight when he stays. i want to break it off cause my feelings are getting deeper for him and i have asked him to stay away from me, but he just wont give up. Does he have feelings for me? Is he invloved with her by pressure? What should i do?

[Philosoraptor]

First off, he's quite immature if he still lets his parents tell him what to do... so dismiss that now.

 

Second he's sleeping with two women, possibly even more. Why let yourself be an option? You deserve someone who will commit to you and only you, and you shouldn't settle to be his #2 girl.

[StrongLass]

Does he have feelings for me? Is he invloved with her by pressure?

 

Since he's essentially disregarding all of your needs and wants for his does it really matter? Fact is right now you're being USED. Men don't disrespect women that they TRULY care for like that.

 

What should i do?

 

For starters? File a restraining order, stop taking his calls/block his number, & realize that you're worth more than some selfish, spineless Fu*ktard's fallback plan.

 

Then find someone better.

[D-Lish]

A better question to ask yourself is why YOU put up with this treatment from him. Don't be an option to anyone- always demand that you be the prize.

 

This guy is sleeping with two women because HE CAN, plain and simple.

 

You can continue to wonder why he does what he does- but a better question is the one you need to ask yourself- why do YOU put up with it.

 

Insist on respect in your relationships with people and you won't be disrespected.