will my ex girlfriend give me a third chance

[kevin ngu]

My name is Kevin and my ex gf just broke up with me a week ago. My situation is that we broke up a month and a half ago. Three weeks after we broke up I contacted her through email asking to meet and save our friendship. After she read it, we met to talk things over and she told me she was ready to move on but I told her I would change and I was crying and telling her how I fell. I think she felt bad for me and told me she would give me 30 days to see if we could work things out. After the month, there was 4 days that I felt she was distant and on that last day she called me to see how I was doing and I told her why she hasn't been seeing me or messaging me. Then she told me she does not want to be committed anymore, wants to be single, still loves me but not in love with me and believes our relationship will not grow and is to hard to work on things.

 

The day after I drop off her things and she told me she is sorry and does not like seeing me look so sad. Then she ask if we could hug and I told her no because it would make things more difficult and she said back that we aren't ending on good terms. I told her we will have to let time resolve things for the future.

 

Its been 10 days and I have not contacted her since I dropped off her stuff. Last night I looked on here FB and saw her in a picture with another guy on carnival rides and stuffed animal gifts.

I don't know what to do, I still love her and want her back in my life but feel like she is moving on and growing apart from me. Should I continue to not contact her or should I try to meet wither? Or should I let her be and move on myself?

Please I need help and my heart is not handling this very well

[Philosoraptor]

If you wanted to be with this person you wouldn't have doubts. Sounds like you saw something you didn't need to see and it make you jealous.

 

You broke up and she is making distance to allow herself to heal and move on with her life. You need to do the same for yourself.