sark-4 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Hi everyone I recently posted here a situation between my bf and I. I ultimatley decided to end things because I just could see my self getting back with my bf after what he had done. To put it short he went on weekend trip with female friend and I wasnt even invited. There were other instances where I felt he was to friendly with other woman. Anyways I broke it off he didnt want it that way he apologized and still cant seem to accept it. Deep down I know its probably for the best but I am still sad about it because I do care for him. He had other great qualities and we did get along. His character flaws are boundries with other woman and I know his last breakup was because of this as well. I cant shake off this feeling of missing him and sometimes I think about taking him back but deep down I know down the road I could see problems. I have two kids as well and dont want to put them through any trouble as well. So how do you overcome this feeling of missing someone wished you could have them back but at the same time you know it would be a disaster. How do you get over that???
rastamoose Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I know everyone says it but keep busy. I'm sure the kids keep you busy? Do things you love to do, listen to your favorite music. Stop thinking about him, if a thought comes in then push it out. Don't dwell on it. If you are going to think about him, make it something negative.
Author sark-4 Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 I have been trying to keep busy but it still sneaks up everyonce and a while. I dont even know why I feel like this cause I am still pissed and hurt at the same time. I think it hurts alot because what I had hoped and wished for will never happen. I dont understand why some people just dont get it, he has done this before.
jphcbpa Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 make a list of the things you do not like about him and the relationship. when he comes to your mind...refer to the list and add new ones as they come up. refer to the list.
Author sark-4 Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 Thank you. Thats a good idea, I tend to remember the good and forget about all the bad. So seeing a list I can see where it would help.
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