so_mo34 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I messed things up with this guy. We were friends for 3 years, but then started hooking up after 2 years. He used to like me because he told my friend that and i liked him too,but put all the feelings aside and ignored them. The topic of a relationship never came up. I was in a bad place back then and had a lot going on that I wouldn't of been ready for one anyways. I moved away for a couple months to try and get my stuff straightened out. Anyways I moved back and now he has a girlfriend. Now they are moving in together next month. He invited me out with her and his friends one night. Then a few days later I invited him out with my friends and he said "I'm sorry it just won't work out." Now i feel like dying because I messed everything up with him. How do I get over it knowing I'm the one that messed up?
hellon Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 You didn't "mess up." Timing is a bitch, but you did what you had to for yourself, and there is probably a bigger reason that this wasn't a committed relationship to begin with. It sounds like you should probably get some distance from the situation too, it can't be easy to keep hanging out with him. Once you accept that he's moved on, and stop blaming yourself for it, you'll feel a lot better and move on too.
forgetmenot75 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 you didn't mess up. He wanted you for sex since the beginning. He never commited to you in the first place... Now he has a girlfriend and doesn't want you anymore. Life is like this, and you have to accept it.
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