targaryen Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 OK, so I met this girl at a beach party last week of May and I felt we really hit it off - I immediately developed a liking to her laid back style and we've texted and flirted a lot over the past weeks. I had asked her out the day we met but she said she needed to get to know me better. Last week I bought it up again, this time a bit better (she agreed to "ice cream at one my the most beautiful places in the area", i did not specify where, which stroked her curiousity). So UNTIL THIS VERY MORNING she texted me to see what she should wear and where i was going to meet her..now just now she just sent me a facebook message saying she's sick and to postpoine until maybe tomorrow IF she feels better.. Is it too cynical of me that I think it's all BS and she intended to cancel from the start and has actually no intention of meeting me at all?
Treasa Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I don't know. People generally get a free pass once unless they come up with some God-awful excuse, but the onus is on her now. I'd tell her to get better and contact me if she still wants to meet up, if I were you. Don't contact her again after that, though. 6
jphcbpa Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I don't know. People generally get a free pass once unless they come up with some God-awful excuse, but the onus is on her now. I'd tell her to get better and contact me if she still wants to meet up, if I were you. Don't contact her again after that, though. Agree...give her the benefit of the doubt. On thing I would not like is getting a FB message about the change in plans. I would prefer a phone call. 2
TigerCub Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Agree...give her the benefit of the doubt. On thing I would not like is getting a FB message about the change in plans. I would prefer a phone call. Totally. That just seems so rude. I dunno why, but I actually have a feeling that she was trying to figure out what to wear to the date and had one of those "Oh my closet is full of nothing but crap" moments and that is why she cancelled. I could be totally wrong, but it's because she was saying something about what to wear before....I dunno, that's just what came to mind... Either way OP, leave it to her to make the next move. 2
MrCastle Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 She was fine this morning and only got sick two hours before the date? Immaturitis. That's what she has. I would next her, personally.
FitChick Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Tell her that if she likes chocolate ice cream to wear dark colors. If she likes vanilla, to wear light colors. Less noticeable if she dribbles on them. 1
CherryT Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Maybe a big zit popped up and she got self conscious. Ice cream sounds cute... If she's in her late teens early 20's, I could see her just being really shy. I agree with TigerClub and wait for her to make the next move.
Infinity0 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 She is probably at the mall looking for new clothes! Is she kind of chubby? She is probably gorgeous but really wants to impress you and wants to wear something she really really likes.
Author targaryen Posted July 12, 2013 Author Posted July 12, 2013 Yep, she did bail - the excuse is so transparent and lame it's mind boggling. What I don't get is why even bother going through all the hassle of leading me on for almost a month?
phineas Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Yep, she did bail - the excuse is so transparent and lame it's mind boggling. What I don't get is why even bother going through all the hassle of leading me on for almost a month? What is more important is why did you continue to talk to her after she gave you that line about getting to know you better before going out with you? She already met you. 1
Emilia Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Yep, she did bail - the excuse is so transparent and lame it's mind boggling. What I don't get is why even bother going through all the hassle of leading me on for almost a month? You allowed her to. Take responsibility for your actions.
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