Pisces13 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I met this awesome girl 3 weeks ago, and I felt an instant connection with her from the moment we met. She has been the only girl since my ex dumped me 4 months ago that I've felt comfortable with asking for her number, and that I've felt any sort of connection with. We had been texting a fair bit over the first two weeks, and then last weekend we went on our first date together. It went pretty well, we didn't kiss or anything, but she was keen to meet up again, which we did earlier this week. The second date went pretty well too, again nothing physical, but she was keen to meet up again, which we are doing tomorrow night. By all accounts, she seems pretty keen on me and I'm happy about that She has told me a couple of times how attractive she thinks I am, she is always keen to go out with me, has told me she has enjoyed herself on our dates so far and that she enjoys my company. Also when on our dates, she has spoken in a way that implies she expects to be seeing more of me. I really like this girl. I find myself thinking about her throughout most of the day, and my feelings for her seem to get stronger as each day passes. I'm trying not to get too far ahead of myself, but she is definitely girlfriend material, and at this rate, I plan on asking her to be so. My question is, how long should I wait before I ask her? I kind of want to "strike while the iron is hot" so to speak, but I also don't want to rush things in case I'm misreading how she feels about me (although I think it is pretty clear). At the same time I don't want to drag it out, and make her feel like I'm possibly not interested in pursuing something more with her. I know there is no real "time frame" for asking a girl to be your girlfriend, but generally speaking, how long should you wait?
fejedi Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 If you are sure she is into you then ask her on the third or fourth date. She might lose interest of you don't say anything.
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