Gypsie Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 (edited) There is this guy I am pretty attracted to and have a bit of a crush on. He gets pretty touchy feely with me at times. I don't mind it at all. I made a comment to him while we were in the club and he brushed his arm gently across my shoulders. He does this a fair bit when he sees me. Also has put his hand on the lower small part of my back at times while we stand next to each other every now and then. :-). Last time I saw him he put his arm around me and pulled me into him. I decided to go along with it and put my arm around him back for a few minutes. Felt nervous so pulled back. He was giving me nicknames as well like Miss (my name and Gorgeous). Did not mind this at all. I was lapping up all the attention! Ha ha. When we were walking out of the club and I was like "so where are you parked?" Just to get a little bit more convo and time with him. I could have sworn I caught him checking me out (while I paused for a second and looked back at him), glancing at me just as we were just about to walk away from each other. It felt like we had a moment then. So wanted to go up, grab and kiss him then but got all shy and just said goodbye and walked off. Probably a good thing I did not do that if I did get the signal wrong. Reckon this guy seems interested or am I reading to much into this? Was I giving off signs I was interested as well the right way? Any advice on how to give more hints that I am interested and attracted to him? Edited July 11, 2013 by Gypsie
RebelWithoutACause Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 He's just flirting, doesn't really mean anything. Just because someone is checking you out doesn't mean they are interested in you in any capacity. This is based purely on what you've shared in the op. All it indicated is someone flirting for fun. If you wanted to be sure initiate something with him and see what he does.
Author Gypsie Posted July 12, 2013 Author Posted July 12, 2013 (edited) Thanks Rebel. I have wondered if he is only mucking around and having fun. I don't mind either way! I have heard he is single though so that is another thing that sparks my interest as well. I was already interested before knowing that but. The funny thing is there is practically like a 15 year age gap between us. I am in my mid 30's where he is possibly in his late 40's. Not sure how old he is. Never did I ever think I would be attracted to someone around that age like this. Just find him very appealing. LoL. Usually am attracted to people more my age or a couple of years younger. It totally took me by surprise. Getting a crush on him. Edited July 12, 2013 by Gypsie
nescafe1982 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 My first thought was "this is how they come home with you." Sounds to me like definite physical attraction/flirtation but no indication (yet) or more than that. Play it however you want-- he's attracted, that's for sure.
Author Gypsie Posted July 12, 2013 Author Posted July 12, 2013 Yes Nescafe. I definitely got that vibe from him last time I saw him. I just hope I am sending out the same vibes back with him. A little rusty with being flirty. I think the age difference might be holding him back possibly if he actually is interested. I am in my mid 30's and still look 18, early 20's. (Have aged gracefully lol). He did not even believe me at first when I casually mentioned my friend and I were in our mid 30's. LoL. I think he does now though. He hosts this Trivia thing a few of my friends and I go to. Works on radio as well which made sense the way his personality is. He is very talkative and entertains us very well during trivia to. No radio station I have heard of though. Ha ha. Any flirting tips would be great people. :-).
Vials Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Maybe he just wants to get into your pants. Was that a first date or something? Or was it a random dude you met at a club?
Author Gypsie Posted July 12, 2013 Author Posted July 12, 2013 No. We have not dated. He just flirts with me when we see each other like how I described in the OP. We just make small talk and I try get to know him a bit better when we see each other as well. That is all it has been so far. He is not a random. Have known him for a few months now but only get to see him once a week because he hosts Trivia night once a week. That is how we met.
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