KatJ Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 (edited) Hi everyone am new to this forum bumped in to it and thought i could get some feedback. I love my husband he is great but lately i really miss him been affectionate with me. He constantly plays around or pushes me or pokes me and acts silly all the time which is fine but i really need a hug every now and then a kiss a cuddle all those girlie things we girls love in a relationship and lately is not like that. This is causing me to non stop think about an ex boyfriend whom i do not have contact with there is no way for me and him to contact each other it was a completely cut off relationship (we ended on good terms and i just feel that is better to leave things in the past so although he wanted to remain in contact i did not and we both moved on now we live in different countries and living our own lives, i have nothing to do with him nor have heard from him or anything) just wanted to clarify. Lately however, for some reason I cant not stop thinking about him (i never loved him nor do i love him) i just keep thinking about how sweet he was to me and how romantic he was and detailed and paid attention to me and was constantly trying to sweep me off my feet and i think about that and i feel the butterflies in my stomach again. I ofcourse try to forget this but i cant i guess what am trying to say is i really want my husband to be like this and to just show me affection and hug me be loving and what not. I spoke with my husband today and told him to be more loving and to hug me and just be more connected emotionally with me and he was whatever about it. I feel this is why i cant stop thinking about that ex boyfriend because i miss been hugged and loved like that and i want my husband to show me affection and i feel terrible having to let my mind wander like this in order to fill that gap. Like i said me and the ex boyfriend there is no way we can even contact each other because i cut all ties and we have no way of contacting each other nor have each others information i even cut all friends in between because i do not believe in been friends with an ex because there will always be issues i do not want to contact him either or anything i just keep thinking about him in an emotional level and it is driving me nuts. Any thoughts. no i do not want to contact my ex even if by some crazy idea i did want to there is no way for us to because i do not know where he is nor his information and he does not know anything about me either, i feel it was the best thing and i still do nor want anything to do with him i dont want you guys to think i do. I just miss my husband been affectionate i really need it from him and not anybody else but he doesn't seem to take me seriously so i just feel emotionally alone and it is bringing me down. I absolutely adore and love my husband and no one else. THats what makes it even harder. Something as simple as a kiss in the morning before he heads out to work. Instead he plays around jokes around like a child and it brings me down. any advice Edited July 11, 2013 by KatJ
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