youngbutoldsoul Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Met up with my ex 3 months post-breakup. We dated for 2 years prior to that and lived together for a year. We had a casual day just catching up and making small talk and he put out his arms to hug me before I left. It's been a week and he's gone radio-silent. I know i shouldn't be wondering anything about him but I can't help but question why he used to text and ask me how I'm doing every other day before and now he stopped. Was it because he felt guilty for dumping me but once we hung out and I seemed to look fine, he feels relieved?
Author youngbutoldsoul Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 Why are you in contact with him? Are you hoping to get back together? I had little contact with him ever since the BU. It was impossible to go NC because we still lived together a couple months after that. I agreed to meet up because I wanted to see how he would react around me now, when I'm not crying/begging like after the breakup. He ended up flirting mildly with me which made me feel more confused. Undeniably, I have some hope but by seeing him, I was hoping to gain clarity.
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