Author Mark1 Posted July 12, 2013 Author Posted July 12, 2013 They've been through the "special present, virgin on your wedding night" bull, the "sex is only good when you're in a truly committed relationship" nonsense, the parents' curfews and the speeches from the priest, and now they can truly be what they want to be and enjoy what they want to enjoy. Women simply aren't THAT much different than men. great post
thefooloftheyear Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I know this will probably be another unpopular post by me, but I dont give a fck so,,, While Id bang anything thats of legal consenting age, as a guy in my 40's I could never be in a relationship with any woman/girl who wasnt at least in her late 30's...I am just a totally different person now then when I was in my 20's..No comparison..We'd have almost nothing in common.. If it works out I guess its fine..I know when I was a 24 year oid guy I wouldnt get within a hundred yards of a 40 year old divorcee with two young kids..Id hit it and get out of Dodge...maybe not even that.. TFY 2
StayBeautiful Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 A lot of my male friends say the same, and I've certainly found that its a myth that 40-something men are only looking for much younger women. Some are of course, but I find most like someone closer to their own age. 2
Phantom888 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Did that total 30 minutes then a day At age 19, probably.
Phantom888 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 A lot of my male friends say the same, and I've certainly found that its a myth that 40-something men are only looking for much younger women. Some are of course, but I find most like someone closer to their own age. Being in my late 30s now, I am glad I attract women my age. The best sex I ever had were with women in the late 30s.... some really great sex with women in mid-40s. I slept with a 57-year-old lady once, and we didn't really connect. She said I was too old for her, and I was 35 back then. 1
darkmoon Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 some women like a young buck, no strings fun, no serious future-building and the like
The Shepherd Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 You sound like a user. A user that likes to brag. You remind me of the girl that dates a guy and lets him pay for the meals but isn't *really* into him. Just enjoyes the "benefits" of what he gives. Imagine a girl starting a thread like this: Girls, if you aren't hooking up with a Sugar Daddy, you're missing out! - Pays for everything - Buys you pretty things - Takes you to fancy restaurants - Gives you jewerly - doesn't expect you to lift a finger - puts up with my drama because I'm hot - is happy with the little bits and pieces of affection I saction off to him - Puts up with you even if you don't sleep with him because he likes having arm candy - Opens his home to you..and his boat, airplane whenever you want to come over. - Don't even have to have sex. Just the promise of sex. I'm hooking up with a 40 year old now. Im 24. He has two kids, 11 and 9. Works out everyday, decent body for a guy his age. Everything is too good to be true. I go over, we cuddle, watch movies, kiss and snuggle but I'm not ready to have sex with him yet. He takes me to fancy restaurants and shows and gives me money to buy pretty clothes. No drama, no strings. We get along great. Laugh, kiss, cuddle, watch movies ect. Never even had sex with him. He just buys and pays for everything. It's so wonderful. You're missing out if you don't follow my advice. Im sure some of you can attest. Posts like these do women no favors. Just like most of the men here would think a woman that came on here posting about a man that spends tons of money on her while she was just playing around would think that that kind of woman wasn't a good one. Think long and hard about the kind of behavior you condone in your own gender Gentlmen and Ladies. What is even worse is that she has two kids. Two kids that probably see your relationship with her. Two kids that might think you actually respect and love their mother when all you really are doing is stereotyping her into a narrowly defined catagory.. "cougar" while you use her for sex just so you don't have to buy her anything (something you bragged about). Props to Woogle for simply saying "older women" and not attaching dehumanizing labels to a woman simply for being older. Lesson learned here: It's okay to use women for sex. Especially if they are older because we all know both younger and older men have WAY more worth than any woman could..especially an older one. It seems to me that she has no problems sleeping with people who have no respect for her. Why should anyone else have any problem with it?
TheGuard13 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Finish this sentence. If it seems too good to be true... 1
Eclypse Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Judging by the OP they're in a no strings attached **** buddy arrangement. Which is pretty cool if they both agree with it and that there is no commitment. I wouldn't say he's using her. They're both just having a good time. 2
KathyM Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 If her kids get wind of this, they are not going to have much respect for their mom, if they think she's allowing herself to be used as a ****buddy for some guy half her age. I hope you're discreet and the kids are not aware of your presence.
Pompeii Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Are you kidding me? Most women past 40 look terrible.
thefooloftheyear Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 If her kids get wind of this, they are not going to have much respect for their mom, if they think she's allowing herself to be used as a ****buddy for some guy half her age. I hope you're discreet and the kids are not aware of your presence. Eh...look at the bright side...They can keep themselves occupied by playing video games together or going to Chuck-E-Cheese.. TFY
thefooloftheyear Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Are you kidding me? Most women past 40 look terrible. Cmon, bro...thats effin harsh.. TFY
MidwestUSA Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Are you kidding me? Most women past 40 look terrible. I'd LOVE to meet you. 3
MidwestUSA Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 I kind of hate the term cougar. Much prefer jaguar; I'm getting long in the tooth.
Southern Cal Dude Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 What are black women over forty called? Panthers? Tupac's mom might fall under this category.
Woggle Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 Tupac's mom might fall under this category. She was a panther in her 20s. Even was pregnant with him in prison.
Eclypse Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 DY it's never implied in the OP that she has any issues with this relationship. Unless the OP reveals more all we have to go on is that they are both enjoying some NSA sex... women can do that too.
Woggle Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 DY it's never implied in the OP that she has any issues with this relationship. Unless the OP reveals more all we have to go on is that they are both enjoying some NSA sex... women can do that too. I agree plus from the OP it sounds like more than just a FWB type of situation. Just because they aren't getting married today doesn't mean they are casual sex buddies.
youngnlove89 Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 And this is why I refrain from dating younger guys like OP. You are still at the age where you see women as objects vs life partners. You mention what is so "great" about this older woman, but what is so "great" about you? ((Besides the urgency to pump your hips into hers like wild bunnies)) 4
The Shepherd Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 How do you KNOW she has no problems sleeping with people who have no respect for her? Do you know this woman on a personal level? Do you seriously think the OP talks to her about their "relationship" the same way he hopped online to talk about her to the board and to other men? Or are you implying that because she IS infact sleeping with him, she has no respect for herself for the fact alone that she enjoys sex? Because women shouldn't enjoy sex? Secondly, why do YOU even want to defend a human being who is showing such obvious disrespect to another? Whether they be male or female? What does that say about *you*? I've come across all kinds of people in this life Shepard. People that have had a very healthy self confidence level and people that haven't. I treat each group with the same level of respect. I don't take advantage of men for their money just because I could. Because that says something about *me* based on how *I* chooose to treat people no matter their level of self confidence. Infact, I would argue that it is those that do not seem to have a lot of respect for themselves that need the most respect to be shown that they are deserving of it. Sometimes people live harsh lives and are treated poorly by others. Not because they deserve it and not because they "ask for it'. But for argument's sake lets say she doesn't respect herself (although I have no clue why you assume this). Regardless of her own level of respect, how *you* choose to treat people (using them or not) is all your own choice. That's on you. Not that other person. You do not know me on a personal level too which is why you made all those wrong assumptions from what I posted. If you knew me in real life you would have seen this below from the two lines I posted earlier: I am hurt by his coming online and bragging about his sleeping arrangement with her. I didn't like it that he posted her family details here even if it is anonymous. I have no issues with women/people enjoying sex. I do not know about her or anyone else, but I can figure out if people don't like me or do not have any respect for me. They need not say it to my face. I think she should have been more careful with her selection. I do not take advantage of people, never did, never will do and have never defended and will never defend people who take advantage of others. I give respect to people that deserve it and I decide who deserves it from me.
Eclypse Posted July 12, 2013 Posted July 12, 2013 And this is why I refrain from dating younger guys like OP. You are still at the age where you see women as objects vs life partners. You mention what is so "great" about this older woman, but what is so "great" about you? ((Besides the urgency to pump your hips into hers like wild bunnies)) Don't lump all young guys in the same pile... Im 22 and been in a monogamous relationship for more than 3 years. Anyway I don't see why people are so harsh on this guy. Everyone's having a good time and no ones getting hurt (as far as we can glean anyway).
thefooloftheyear Posted July 13, 2013 Posted July 13, 2013 I don't have a problem with them enjoying some NSA sex. I have a problem with him shooting off his mouth about it and bragging about how he doesn't have to spend any money or pretty much lift a finger to get what he wants. I also hate how women get boxed into catagories by guys such as the term "cougar". Which I actually think are more derogatory than anything else. And do not try and pretend that if some woman posted a thread simliar to what I pointed out, that the men of LS would be totally okay with it. They might say to that girl "whatever floats your boat", but there isn't many men here that would respect her or would think she had respect for the guy. There is a way to have NSA sex AND still treat the person you are having the NSA sex with right and with respect. This guy is a totally user and bragger. It's lame. Im sure no one is holding a gun to anyones head.. I think the problem/issue is not him-but whats wrong with her... just sayin' TFY
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