Mark1 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 -No drama -No texting -No phone calls -No buying her anything -Great sex -Great body -Allows you to spend the night -Great sex -Opens her home to you, whenever you want to come over -Great sex Im hooking up w a 40 year old now, Im 24. She has two kids, 11, and 9. Works out every day, great body. Everything is too good to be true. I go over, we have sex, cuddle and watch TV, have sex again. No drama, no strings. We get along great. Laugh, kiss, cuddle, watch movies etc. Never even left her house. You're missing out if you don't follow my advice. Im sure some of you can attest. 7
sillyanswer Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I wish you had given me this advice 15 or 20 years ago. 3
Philosoraptor Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I prefer committed relationships. But hey, as long as the both of you are happy with it kudos to you. 2
Southern Cal Dude Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 If I want to get laid, it's only with cougars. And they come onto me anyway. I'm 25 BTW.
Woggle Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Older women are great for a guy who is sick of drama. Many of them look just as good as their younger counterparts plus they hate drama just as much as most men plus they are clear with what they want. Older women all want different things but a man knows what those things are from the jump. 2
KungFuJoe Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I'm hooking up with a cougar right as we speak. 37, three kids, latina, absolutely gorgeous woman...looks like she's in her 20s. No drama, mindblowing sex, and she cooks me breakfast in the morning. 3
Lixxy Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 -No drama -No texting -No phone calls -No buying her anything -Great sex -Great body -Allows you to spend the night -Great sex -Opens her home to you, whenever you want to come over -Great sex Im hooking up w a 40 year old now, Im 24. She has two kids, 11, and 9. Works out every day, great body. Everything is too good to be true. I go over, we have sex, cuddle and watch TV, have sex again. No drama, no strings. We get along great. Laugh, kiss, cuddle, watch movies etc. Never even left her house. You're missing out if you don't follow my advice. Im sure some of you can attest. Once a woman reaches a certain age, that doesn't automatically mean that all of the traits you described just magically become assigned to her... You describe the woman you are dating. Nothing more. You cannot categorize people by their age. For YOU to categorize this wonderful woman you are dating, simply by how many years she has remained living is actually pretty dehumanizing to her... Oh, wait... Perhaps that's because her only real value to you is how much sex she gives you anyway, lol... 18
Woggle Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Once a woman reaches a certain age, that doesn't automatically mean that all of the traits you described just magically become assigned to her... You describe the woman you are dating. Nothing more. You cannot categorize people by their age. For YOU to categorize this wonderful woman you are dating, simply by how many years she has remained living is actually pretty dehumanizing to her... Oh, wait... Perhaps that's because her only real value to you is how much sex she gives you... Some people never grow up and get past that crap but a man's odds are certainly better with older women.
Lixxy Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Some people never grow up and get past that crap but a man's odds are certainly better with older women. What's to say she wasn't always what the OP is describing though...? No-strings attached relationships are still possible before women reach "cougar" age! It depends on the person. She may have always been like this. However, there are many, many women whose desire to settle down and find a long-term partner or husband vastly increases with age ~ which is a perfect reason to not categorize women by their age alone. 1
Kamille Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Thanks. I've been wondering why I was so popular with the barely 25 crowd. ps: I like you back barely 25 crowd. 7
Woggle Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Some want to settle down and when they do they don't complain that men don't want to commit while passing up every guy that wants to commit in favor of chasing some player. They also come from an era before texting and Facebook which is a huge plus to me.
Treasa Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 That pretty much describes me except for the opening my house to you whenever you want to come over part. I like my space. If we agree on it and you aren't over too often, then great! 1
RogerWallace111 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 That sounds like a nice arrangement. In my limited experience they haven't been as secure / low maintenance as yours seems to be, though.
BradJacobs Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Cougars are fun when you're young. College girls are fun when you're older. The in between years get kind of hazy ... 2
Author Mark1 Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 what sort of drama have you all found with women in their 40s?
therhythm Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 what sort of drama have you all found with women in their 40s? I haven't got that much drama with the young ones neither... 1
Phantom888 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 what sort of drama have you all found with women in their 40s? Their husbands or exs. When I was 19, I had a 40 year old Irish cougar. We had sex 6 times a day for 2 weeks, until her husband caught us.
StayBeautiful Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Speaking as a 40-something woman, I don't see myself settling down with someone where I've got lipstick older than they are. And I don't especially want to be someone's "experience". So I'll stick to the 40-something men 3
Woggle Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Their husbands or exs. When I was 19, I had a 40 year old Irish cougar. We had sex 6 times a day for 2 weeks, until her husband caught us. Stick to the single ones. 1
crude Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 They've been through the "special present, virgin on your wedding night" bull, the "sex is only good when you're in a truly committed relationship" nonsense, the parents' curfews and the speeches from the priest, and now they can truly be what they want to be and enjoy what they want to enjoy. Women simply aren't THAT much different than men. 1
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