Dadremblvin Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 ...Can someone please interpret? Two weeks ago my ex-fiance texts me about HIS insurance bill. I ignore...he can put his big boy pants on and call about his own bill...I'm not taking care of him anymore... Sunday he texted this, "R u still in apt.?" We have only had a handful of interactions since he left in January. I have been NC for the most part. I ignored the text but have been wondering why he would ask where I am living? When he left I was unemployed, I was working on starting a business. He is not on the lease it was my apartment when he moved in three years ago. I know "who cares". These breadcrumbs are like little brain worms...they get in your head and just start eating away... But really someone talk me down from this...
StrongLass Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 "R u still in apt.?" My Heartbreaker is a little rusty, but I am familiar with D*ckglish. Translation: "Hey, I'm trying to open the texting floodgates with an innocuous question in hopes that you'll give me a sweet little ego boost that'll satisfy my mild curiosity about how you've been doing since I dumped your unworthy-of-my-awesomeness self." Pull out the worm out of your ear missy, it ain't doing you any favors. Ignore him & hang in there
LinkWorshiper Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 What is the heartbreaker translation for "No, don't put a time limit on it... you take your space and I'll take mine, and when you are comfortable, reach out." Two weeks after this conversation, I am Facebook blocked and unsure if it means he's really trying to take space or if he's trying to take the coward's way out. I might add that I asked for the space because I felt as though he was stringing me along while he eyed potential other girls in case nobody worked out. I told him that it wasn't fair for him to do that emotional push/pull thing with me when he wasn't sure what he even wanted. So I don't even know what to think anymore. It's been almost four weeks of NC minus a small text I sent to let him know that I was appreciative of the space and he could reach out to me when he had time just so that the pressure wasn't all on me to open things back up again.
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