Spoonss Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 I ignore my ex's call after 2 months of being broken up she still occasionally calls i never answer. But shes leaving tommorow for a big trip and she left a voicemail i am affraid to listen to it. I feel it might not be good but at the same time it could. Bah so frustrated that she does this.
TaraMaiden Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 It's very probably along the lines of "well, I'm leaving tomorrow, and I may not be able to contact you while I'm away, so, bye for now, I'll get in touch when I get back, if I can't contact you while I'm away!" There you go. Now delete it.
youngnlove89 Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 No! Listen to it!! You will always wonder what she said if you don't...
Mws Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 It could set you back I've been following your story and she has a boufriend for a month.
Author Spoonss Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 I have a feeling thats its going to be something bad. Im struggling right now not gonna lie guys.
McGriff Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Just listen to it already. What's she gonna say? I hate you? I'm pregnant? I'm moving to Thailand? Can you feed my dogs while I'm gone? Just listen to it, and get it over with. Don't be such a wuss.
for666 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 yeh listen to it btw she cheated can it be even worse? i don't think so and nvm what she say there move on man she cheated you did noting wrong and she is wrong so let the karma catch her you deserve better
Chi townD Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 I don't know what the big deal is. I'll bet anything it's probably exactly how Tara say's it is.
Author Spoonss Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 Well i just listened to it as i guessed it was bad. She basically said that she didnt cheat on me????? and that i shouldnt believe it even though she basically admited to it? Then went to on to put me down for having anxiety disorder which i have been treated for over the last 2 months and am making progress. I am starting to be glad that this girl is out of my life. Although taking a cheap shot at a mental illness really makes me feel like ****
Hoaks Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Well i just listened to it as i guessed it was bad. She basically said that she didnt cheat on me????? and that i shouldnt believe it even though she basically admited to it? Then went to on to put me down for having anxiety disorder which i have been treated for over the last 2 months and am making progress. I am starting to be glad that this girl is out of my life. Although taking a cheap shot at a mental illness really makes me feel like **** Yeah my ex did this too...said "oh and btw, that doctor of yours is doing jack **** for you" I didnt say anything to that. no doctor can help me with what she caused me to go through. even the calmest person would get angry and panic with her.
TaraMaiden Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Well i just listened to it as i guessed it was bad. She basically said that she didnt cheat on me????? and that i shouldnt believe it even though she basically admited to it? Then went to on to put me down for having anxiety disorder which i have been treated for over the last 2 months and am making progress. I am starting to be glad that this girl is out of my life. Although taking a cheap shot at a mental illness really makes me feel like **** Her message actually 'reads' as follows: "Oh...So, you've decided to go No Contact on me? Fine!Well, see, here's the thing though: I know how you feel about me, so guess what? I know I can still get under your skin. I know I can still make your life hell, and stop you in your tracks. I know I can even stall your progress and make your life tumble backwards? You know how? Through cheap shots. Like this one. Gets right through that chink in your armour, doesn't it? Now, you're more confused and upset than ever! Hah!!" Objective achieved. Here's a really good way to get someone else to change THEIR phone number: Print out their first name and mobile number, together with the slogan "If you really want a good time, call ****** on ***** ******" on lots of little business-card-size bits of paper. (You'll really only need about 12...) Cut them out, and paste them liberally all over town - particularly in public phone boxes. Guaranteed in a week, they'll have to change their number. In the meantime - change yours too. SORTED.
It-is-what-it-is. Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Well i just listened to it as i guessed it was bad. She basically said that she didnt cheat on me????? and that i shouldnt believe it even though she basically admited to it? Then went to on to put me down for having anxiety disorder which i have been treated for over the last 2 months and am making progress. I am starting to be glad that this girl is out of my life. Although taking a cheap shot at a mental illness really makes me feel like **** What TARA said about the translation. It's so tempting to do something back, but she wins because you engage. Somebody on one of the threads said they didn't understand the value of 180. This is the value. Next time, delete without reading or listening, or if you must have someone lee listen and let you know if she is informing you of something you need to know. She's a hateful mean person. Good riddance. Hope your anxiety is getting better, take care.
headsashed Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 What tara said is most probably right, my advice would be go back to ignoring or change your number, it will drive your ex nuts when they cant get your attention and then they will get bored and give up altogether,well that's the theory anyway.
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