dmlee_lee Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=green][/color] I NEED HELP!!! I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 1/2 months now. He does things for me all the time...and I don't do much for him. Well...I want to change that now. Can you guys please give me some ideas of things that I could do for him to let him know how much I love him and care for him? THANKS!!
dreaming4ever Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 Sure, no problem. I'm the type of person that does this type of thing naturally for my boyfriend all the time. Let's see, you could do any of the following: -give him a back massage -offer to clean his room/car for him -buy him something that you know he's really been wanting "just because" -treat him to a night out doing something he really loves to do -make him dinner -rent a movie you know he wants to see -wear something sexy just for him -buy him some kind of candy you know he likes just cuz you're out and you thought of him Well....that's all I can think of for now...but just those types of "extras" are usually nice.....they make people feel wanted and loved and that's what you want to do because you want to make him happy Good luck!
GuyMontag Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 What does your B/F like to do? I would try to personalize whatever you do, so that it shows that you pay attention to what he likes (i.e. sports, music, etc...). By doing this, he will know that you care about HIM. My G/F bought me some cologne that I really liked, so I knew she cared to at least find something I like. Another big thing is that you show appreciation for what he does for you (that makes giving much more enjoyable). I hate it when g/f's say "you're too nice to me" or "I never do anything for you." Just enjoy the damn givingness! Tell him how you much you like him (you'd be surprised how often this is important to guys). Just let him know he's a special guy (that sounds pretty corny). Anything else?
Merin Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 Things I've done for my BF.. Well to start, I try to do more Listening than talking (LOL and I don't want to hear one word from any of you guys how that's an amazing thing in itself!) *Ahem* anyway.. I remember things he will say in conversation that he likes or has always wanted and keep them in memory.. it always blows him away when I get him something that he only mentioned one time and I remembered it.. This could be anything.. and since I have kind of a goof ball sense of humor, LOL he has got a few items that most ppl would be like whhhaaattt?! but he really loved it! He had told me one time that one of his favorite movies is office space.. and in the movie (if you haven't seen it) there is this character named Milton.. he has a red swingline stapler with him through out the movie.. for some reason my bf loves this damn stapler SO I bought him one! OMG lol he loves that freaking stapler and he laughed so much that I had remembered that and got it for him. He also loves Space and Science.. so I got him property on the Moon (just goof ball) but it was this whole "deed" paper thing and he loved it! Got him a star... again because it's his thing. Do things that are about him.. show him you've listened. Good Luck
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