tralli Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 Hi this is my first post here I am currently dating a colombian girl here in Iceland and I really like her and she seems to like me too. But it wasn't until after our third date that it dawned to me: What if she only likes me as a means to an end, i.e to get permanent visa. The thing is she only has a student visa and cannot work. She has been here for over a year, her family lives here too and her sister even has a citizenship. Now I have not seen any real evidence that she only likes me as a means to an end, but I have read so many horror stories about colombian women and I am a bit afraid She is pretty, shy, she laughs at my lame jokes, lays her head on my shoulder sometimes, looks in my eyes and smiles when I look her way. Today she called me and told me she missed me, I told her I was sick and couldn't text her, she became really caring and told me she wished she was there to take care of me. The problem is not knowing for sure how she really feels is making me feel really bad. What do you guys think? I met her initally online but she was already here then.
Arabella Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 Hi this is my first post here I am currently dating a colombian girl here in Iceland and I really like her and she seems to like me too. But it wasn't until after our third date that it dawned to me: What if she only likes me as a means to an end, i.e to get permanent visa. The thing is she only has a student visa and cannot work. She has been here for over a year, her family lives here too and her sister even has a citizenship. Now I have not seen any real evidence that she only likes me as a means to an end, but I have read so many horror stories about colombian women and I am a bit afraid She is pretty, shy, she laughs at my lame jokes, lays her head on my shoulder sometimes, looks in my eyes and smiles when I look her way. Today she called me and told me she missed me, I told her I was sick and couldn't text her, she became really caring and told me she wished she was there to take care of me. The problem is not knowing for sure how she really feels is making me feel really bad. What do you guys think? I met her initally online but she was already here then. Lol, what makes you think that every immigrant wants a green card? I had to be dragged out of Europe and into the US kicking and screaming, and took me forever to get my paperwork straightened out because I just wanted to go home. Get real. Her sister is a citizen, and her family are permanent residents. They could EASILY sponsor her for a permanent resident card too. Why don't you worry about this sort of thing if you start seeing some red flags? Like, say... she wants to marry you within a month, or something. 1
Author tralli Posted July 10, 2013 Author Posted July 10, 2013 Lol, what makes you think that every immigrant wants a green card? I had to be dragged out of Europe and into the US kicking and screaming, and took me forever to get my paperwork straightened out because I just wanted to go home. Get real. Her sister is a citizen, and her family are permanent residents. They could EASILY sponsor her for a permanent resident card too. Why don't you worry about this sort of thing if you start seeing some red flags? Like, say... she wants to marry you within a month, or something. Hah, your reply actually made me feel better, and no there have no flags been raised yet, she hasn't asked anything from me. But this is me in a nutshell I tend to overanalyze everything and expect the worst.
Arabella Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 Hah, your reply actually made me feel better, and no there have no flags been raised yet, she hasn't asked anything from me. But this is me in a nutshell I tend to overanalyze everything and expect the worst. Glad to be of help Enjoy the moment with the girl and stop overanalyzing!
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