pedens001 Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 Ok for those who read my last post about this girl in my class..well I saw her again today but didn't get to talk to her a whole lot and she left earlier before me but she told me bye with a big smile and another wave at me so I think I'm in good and I'm gonna go for it. I want to ask her probably on Tuesday if she wants to meet up and study before the next test..Im wanting to wait til the teacher says when the next test will be so that would help me figure out what day, I have thought about what I'm gonna say mainly just gonna let it come to me but somewhere along the lines of " Hey you wanna meet up somewhere and go over this material together?..How does that sound? If thats good u guys let me know or give me any other tips on what I should say and read my other post to and let me know yall think I'm good to go! Thanks I'll appreciate any help I get
EG18 Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 The worst thing to do is even to try to plan it out... that never works... dont wait for the teacher to tell you when the next test will be... even though I could imagine I would do the same thing... Instead, go with the gut and ask her out. If it is a big lecture class, then sit next to her and try to see how her body language is towards you... that might be a big help to see how into you she really is... sit next to her or like one chair away... the chances of someone sitting inbetween you guys is slim... After the class... conversation should be easy.... ask her if she has another class right after.... then, ask if she wants to get a coffee... bamb! No waiting... and if your in college... many times, people do have breaks between classes... Its flattering too you know? 'Cause what hurts the most is the anticipation! So go for it! Hope that helps!
gd1039 Posted October 22, 2004 Posted October 22, 2004 EG has it right. Don't overplan because when it comes time to implement the plan, it won't go like it should. Having a rough idea of what you want to say is good, but don't overthink it. And NO NO NO on asking her to get together to study. IMO, this is a very bad way to ask a girl out. You want it to be as clear as possible that you want to go on a date with her, therefore ask her for something more dateish. Again, like EG said, coffee. It is a perfect oportunity to get together and find out more about eachother. I don't know how often you see this girl, but stop delaying and ask her out already. What you need to do is ask her out the next time you see her. The longer you wait the more she will think you just want to be friends.
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