NJtoDC Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Maybe he has Aspergers and it causes his quirky behavior?
Author Infinity0 Posted July 11, 2013 Author Posted July 11, 2013 Damn this thread has me lol'in ! You sound like a funny girl. I'm not sure how you connect his saying he was nervous and that you were better than what he could "get" in real life with him being a "little player"... But not surprised with your satisfaction now that you feel you've affirmed that you're the superior one Because now he has started with the compliments now and it's making me wonder. A small compliment, when it's honest, it's nice and kind of expected. The stuff he said was too much and I feel like his buddies made him text that or something because the last texts were very different from his personality before that and when we met. Thnx, -The Superior One lol
soccerrprp Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 How are we 2 pages in and nobody has spotted this yet? This is despicable behavior. Arranging a date with someone and then deciding to deliberately not show up? And then changing your mind solely because he is "too hot"? And now you're happy with the outcome, not because he's indicated he's interested in you, but because your "ego has been satisfied". What is wrong with you? I noticed this and thought the same. I started to respond to this very thing, but decided not to. I only shook my head and conceded that someone else would pick up on this and comment. Sometimes it's a little too mentally exhausting to write about behavior that is glaringly inappropriate, questionable, or crappy in nature. I just don't get people at times. And you wonder why some people have difficulty dating or finding stable people to date. Sometimes, sometimes, one's own perception/propensities seem to attract the wrong kind of people. I hope it's not the case here.
NJtoDC Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Because now he has started with the compliments now and it's making me wonder. A small compliment, when it's honest, it's nice and kind of expected. The stuff he said was too much and I feel like his buddies made him text that or something because the last texts were very different from his personality before that and when we met. Thnx, -The Superior One lol He is either doing too much or too little to please you. He was awkward and shy the first meeting. Give him a break and stop making all these assumptions and trying to read his mind. You will be miserable and you will make him miserable. If you continue to read into everything this will not end well and this guy will be left scratching his head trying to figure out what he did wrong.
soccerrprp Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 (edited) BTW, the description of your first date indicates, imho, an "awkward" experience at best. I also noticed this. Sorry if someone else commented. So I meet him. He seems standofish! No compliment, nothing. Which is ok I like guys that don't bull**** too much anyways. Decent looking confident kindda cocky guy. Kind of my type somehow. Her very first face2face impression is this. Nothing endearing in my book, but it's her type????? Chalk it up to insecurity, nervousness, whatever, but she is attracted to someone who behaves this way. Now I'm starting to see why there are guys on this site that complain that some ladies prefer a-holes to "nice guys." I've been a little nervous on dates and would NEVER behave in that manner and have never had to, thank the stars above. Edited July 11, 2013 by soccerrprp
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