henderson14 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 (edited) I met this girl who was here for a few weeks, but was from really far away. We hit it off, but only went out on one real date. She was leaning her head on my shoulder by the end of the night and it seems like she likes me. And we had some heavy dancing and making out the first night we met. Well of course she had to go back home, so I'm not sure if I will see her again. She will possibly move here on year from now, and will be back a few times in-between that. I told her to contact me when she is back in town, and she said she would. I'm just worried because we only went out once, and I don't know if that is enough time to form a strong enough connection where she will contact me again 4,5,6, or 12 months from now? What do you think? Edited July 9, 2013 by henderson14
sdraw108 Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 It shouldn't matter. Are you gonna put your life on hold for the mere possibility that someone you went on one date with might get in touch with you again several months in the future? Put it out of your mind. If she gets back in touch AND you're interested again at that time, then great. If not, you moved on (hopefully!), so it won't matter.
Author henderson14 Posted July 10, 2013 Author Posted July 10, 2013 It shouldn't matter. Are you gonna put your life on hold for the mere possibility that someone you went on one date with might get in touch with you again several months in the future? Put it out of your mind. If she gets back in touch AND you're interested again at that time, then great. If not, you moved on (hopefully!), so it won't matter. I'm in no way going to put my life on hold. But I'm sure ill still be single. I've been single for 5 years now, and she's the second girl I've went out with who I've actually liked since then.
sdraw108 Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 Ok, but even so, the rest of what I said still holds. It shouldn't matter. No point thinking about it. If it happens, it happens, but operate on the assumption that it won't. In the meantime, act as you would have if you had never met her.
Lansing Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 Why not keep in touch with her via e-mail/etc? Share stories and then it won't be so weird when she comes to your town. If you don't have enough in common to even keep a conversation going I doubt she will contact you in 6 months or a year unless she doesn't know anyone else in the town. 1
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