MomsSpaghetti Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 This will come as big surprise to a lot of people here. You can be a guy who is social, kind, fun to be around, intelligent, nicely dressed, has his life together, and even has a lot of women who enjoy his company, but still he isn't a guy who is attractive to women, isn't someone they would want to date. I say this because it's so hilarious whenever a guy here complains about how women aren't attracted to him and then the choir sings to the tune of, "You obviously have a bad personality and you need to learn how to smile and be social."
carhill Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Trust me, they understand better than you and I will ever know. The rest is a choice. We can make a choice to not care what they do or don't understand, empathize with or care for and live our lives for ourselves on our own terms. Or a different choice. Life is full of choices. 2
todreaminblue Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I do know this ....a smile can change who you are in a split second....it transforms you.....spo the sisterhood isnt too far off on this aspect.....do you think a woman would go up to a guy who looked sullen.....ok i would......but not to date but ask what was wrong.....to offer to help them......i would date the guy who smiled at me......who was kind compassionate, together, intelligent....... a smile doesnt only touch a mouth, it touches the eyes of a person smiling,makes eyes warm and inviting......smiles are underestimated......they are first base in my opinion .....deb.
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