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5 months post BU, nearly 60 days NC...


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... yet I am still struggling.

 

I don't know what it is. I think about him every day and multiple times in a day. We were together for a good chunk of time and to know that he moved on before we even broke up, and left me for someone else, hurts.

 

He ignored my various attempts of contact. I didn't get any answers. All I got was one phone call in which he said "If I knew we were going to go back to talking about the break up I'd have never agreed to talk" - afterwards, nothing. He found it easier for himself, selfishly as usual, to ignore me and take the cowards way out.

 

What do I do? I can't keep going through my days thinking about him. It really has to stop because it is hurting.

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Not sure what you believe in spiritually, but what helped me when I was obsessing about someone was to think there must be a reason this person is on my mind. Perhaps I need to pray for them. I would and pray that they would have anything that I would ask for myself, happiness, peace ect. Do this for about 3 to 4 weeks every day and see what happens. Amazing how it changes the energy of a thought that comes to you.

 

Best wishes!

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