Adee Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Hi noob here, been married three years, around xmas my wife says this marriage is crap, we talked about why that was so, and worked on stuff, and it seemed to blow over, the 3 week ago she drops the bombshell again, only this time she wants me to leave, so i tried everything to change her mind but to no avail, all i got was i dont love you like i should, and you irritate me quite hurtful stuff, so i made arrangements to leave, she then says we can still go out to the cinema occasionally, and im like great, we have a dog also, and i said i can come round after work, cos i only have a part time job, and take the dog out then leave, she says yea no problem, so ive been gone a week, and she has changed locks on door , blocked me on fbook, and said she needs her space and i havent to contact her for at least 2 months!!! wtf??? im absolutely gutted, and dont know what to do, Any advice please?
CarrieT Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Who owns the home? I'm not sure she can legally lock you out if both names are on the mortgage/lease. You could call a locksmith to get back in and file charges. (p.s. I like Fish too!) 1
Author Adee Posted July 9, 2013 Author Posted July 9, 2013 Hi her name on lease, was her home before i moved in... yea fish is the man
CarrieT Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Hi her name on lease, was her home before i moved in... Then you are kinda screwed, man... Sorry. But if she truly wants nothing to do with you, you can't force someone into a relationship who has already checked out. Has she started divorce proceedings? If not, you should...
for666 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 some more details of why she felt that bad??? with you!? is it something you can change or is it something in you'r personality that irritate her ( if so don't change people need except and love us for hu we are) you know just give more info so we can see the picture
Author Adee Posted July 9, 2013 Author Posted July 9, 2013 thats all i have, i irritate her, and smother her but how i dont know, were only together in the evening, cos of work etc and in morning before work, i just dont get why she is fine with me until i leave ?
96nole Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 thats all i have, i irritate her, and smother her but how i dont know, were only together in the evening, cos of work etc and in morning before work, i just dont get why she is fine with me until i leave ? Find the other man and you'll understand.
todreaminblue Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 thats all i have, i irritate her, and smother her but how i dont know, were only together in the evening, cos of work etc and in morning before work, i just dont get why she is fine with me until i leave ? ack awkward...... i think its unfair, and she obviously doesnt have good communication skills.....seems to me there could be another party involved...i dont understand why any person would treat another this way.....unless there was abuse..which i am gathering there wasnt.....she wasnt committed to the marriage obviously................i feel for you...and if she isnt it is better to find out sooner than later....thats the only positive i have....best wishes for a brighter future devoid of drama.....deb
M30USA Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 My ex-wife kicked me out of "her" house within 1 year of marriage. We divorced 5 years later. If she's the kind of person to do this, she has zero respect for you and it will only get worse. I speak from experience. 2
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