jackiki Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I have been contemplating on this website last year over my nasty breakup with my ex-gf (dont know how to attach the link to the thread). Anyways, she cheated and left me for another guy on April 2012. I have moved on, although we kept a very low contact in the beginning, and only met once. But have not been in contact since Christmas. Anyways, she sent me a very impersonal postcard on my bday two weeks ago, and even called me. I replied, and I went on about how good my life is and how great things are going with me. They truly are. I just felt like making peace with her. I forgave her before, and moved on. Although she still comes to my mind from time to time. She was silent during most of the call. I asked her how things are going with her new bf, and she said that they broke up. I did not ask why, and simply changed the topic. At the end of the call I told her it would be nice to meet someday if she are around town. That is all. I decided to give her a ring a week after, just to catch up. I am dating someone at the moment, and I hinted this to her. I really do not want anything romantically from her anymore. Just want to really reconcile and close this chapter on good terms. So as expected, she did not pick and never called back. Now I feel very agitated again. I thought she is willing to make peace, wtf? Ahhh, I never understand how the mind of others work, especially people whom you thought you really and genuinely knew. Just wanted to share!! and remind all the people out there who are craving to break NC, to stay strong, and remember that expectations are the only reason for disappointments.
bubbaganoosh Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Why do you want to reconcile? If anything, she should be the one to do it since she's the one who cheated. You say that you have adjusted and your life is good and your seeing another woman? Why screw that up by seeing your ex? There's an old saying. Let a sleeping dog lie. The only thing it might do is knock you off track and screw things up between you and your new girlfriend.
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