ltensail Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 I have this strong desire to be good friend with a gang of girls. Everyone knows girls always get together in a gang of 4-6. I really envy my friend who can get along so well with a particular gang. I can hear his name always being shouted across the corridor in school. btw, we are guys. Then, this desire manifest in me..I don't know if it is because I also crave for the same treatment from girls or I just wanna know what is it that my friend did to those girls which I didn't. Can anyone who has the same experience or knowledge help me here?
bluechocolate Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 I would guess that your friend didn't "do" anything to those girls - he's probably just a friend & good to hang with. When I was in school the majority of my friends were girls & I guess that was because I was more the brainy creative type than a jock. I excelled in Art, English & History & didn't give a stuff about sport so that put me more in touch with the girls than the guys. To this day I get along better with women than men though it seems that now I have more male friends than female. Regardless, gender isn't really an issue here. Friends are friends and are attracted to one another by mutual likes & dislikes - doesn't matter what sex they are. If you have nothing in common with these girls than I doubt you'll ever be friends.
Reply Posted October 21, 2004 Posted October 21, 2004 Originally posted by bluechocolate I would guess that your friend didn't "do" anything to those girls - he's probably just a friend & good to hang with. No no...I didn't really mean he "DO" something...I mean it's his character that attracts girls more than guys. Like you said, "good to hang with". He must have the character girls like, am I right? And, what I think is, usually girls will wait for guys to approach them. I'm thinking is there some kind of approach method or something my character can have to be more appealing to girls. Then, what is the reason that some guys are more attractive to girls while some aren't? Correct me if I'm wrong. Anyway, in the first place, did you take initiative to approach girls? Or vice versa?
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