buzzie2 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 There is a guy that I know really likes me but has told me he is not ready for a relationship. I however am ready for a relationship. It's been a long time since I have felt this way for a guy. There is no one else I want to date. What should I do? 1
MorganDreamer Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 There are many reasons when GUYS say they are not ready for serious relationships... Because people's minds are deep, and complicated, and we have no idea how they really feel, or what they really think. But from my point of view, These are the main causes when guys say "I am not ready for a serious relationship" ... 1. They had been hurt so much by someone they loved! and that made them scared to be in love again... This situation can happen to everyone. When you love someone so much and your heart gets broken, it ruins your self-esteem, and make you feel insecure and self conscious toward yourself. And it seems hard to start it over with someone when your wounds haven't healed yet.... They are probably just stuck in love with their exes, or totally forget their exes, but are afraid to be in love again. 2. They want to have fun without a commitment! Yes They say they like you, but it's not enough to be in serious relationship with you. They don't want to lose their freedom lives, having fun, party, hangout, sleep around and blahhh ... They probably like you so much, but they love themselves way more. From my point of view, you shouldn't waste your time with this guy. This situation had happened to me, and I just ended it up with a GOODBYE. I know it hurts, but don't let him take an advantage of you. You should be strong, be on your own, and stay positive because there are so many guys in the rest of this world are waiting for you. Don't waste your time with a jerk, and plus if he wants to sleep with you, that's a bonus (for him), because he might think that he can sleep with someone who is devoted to him ... You need to run away from him Buzzie2, I know it hurts, but you will look back and thank god you choose the right choice ...
clia Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 There is a guy that I know really likes me but has told me he is not ready for a relationship. I however am ready for a relationship. It's been a long time since I have felt this way for a guy. There is no one else I want to date. What should I do? You should move on. He means he is not ready for a relationship with you. Don't waste any more time on him. Go find a man who does want a relationship with you. 2
Phantom888 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 As stated above, don't waste your time. You two have different goals. He wants to have sex with you, yet he wants to have sex with other women also. That's how un-committed guys thinks. He doesn't want to get tied down because there might be other opportunities he may be missing. It's a very selfish characteristic of some immature men. 1
charisma.9901 Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 Stay away from him-- if he's expressed the sentiment that he doesn't want a relationship, then *believe* him! Move on and find someone who is ready
ChessPieceFace Posted July 10, 2013 Posted July 10, 2013 But from my point of view, These are the main causes when guys say "I am not ready for a serious relationship" ... Enumerating 2 reasons gives the false impression that those are the only reasons. I really like a girl and while I'm fairly certain she doesn't reciprocate (not 100% certain) here's just some of the reasons I wouldn't pursue a relationship with her: - I'm not in physical or financial shape for a relationship with anyone - I have serious reservations about whether we'd have enough common interests to sustain a relationship - There are some aspects of her personality that give me concerns Main point, maybe it's the first one. Not everyone is always ready to enter a relationship, and them saying that doesn't necessarily mean they're lying or brushing you off.
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