love.hurt Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 We broke up Wednesday night. We have been in a long distance relationship for the last 2 months of our 3.5 year relationship. She broke up with me as she was finding it too hard and couldnt do it anymore. I was(am) devastated but kept strong sent her one last text the day after say "hope you find whatever it is you are looking for and good luck" It was a genuine text. After that I comitted to NC in order to help myself heal or hopes that maybe she will miss me. 4 days later of NC, she text me asking "How am I doing and hopes everything is okay". I did not reply and since then has been over 24 hours. Im planning on not replying and continuing the NC even though all I want is to hear her voice. Shes the kind of person who knows that keeping NC after a breakup is very important. Now i feel shes playing with my emotions. Can someone please give advice on what her intentions might be and whether I should keep up the NC and not reply. Thanks
flitzanu Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 We broke up Wednesday night. We have been in a long distance relationship for the last 2 months of our 3.5 year relationship. She broke up with me as she was finding it too hard and couldnt do it anymore. I was(am) devastated but kept strong sent her one last text the day after say "hope you find whatever it is you are looking for and good luck" It was a genuine text. After that I comitted to NC in order to help myself heal or hopes that maybe she will miss me. 4 days later of NC, she text me asking "How am I doing and hopes everything is okay". I did not reply and since then has been over 24 hours. Im planning on not replying and continuing the NC even though all I want is to hear her voice. Shes the kind of person who knows that keeping NC after a breakup is very important. Now i feel shes playing with my emotions. Can someone please give advice on what her intentions might be and whether I should keep up the NC and not reply. Thanks your ex isn't the one in NC, you are the one in NC. she didn't break anything. her text isn't saying anything to you that you need to reply to. 1
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