napy666 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 The guy I've been talking too him and I have been talking about one us coming out for a visit and moving way later. But now he's unsure on if he wants to move down here because he says his mom has been going to the hospital a lot so he may not want to move away due to his mom. Not to be a bitch but come on your a grown man you can't make your own choices why live at home your whole life and have to worry about taking care of your mom? What about me? I would like for us to have a life together and live together too.
lifeislove88 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I went through the same thing. Granted, he was away in the military for 6 years, but had planned to move down with me when he got out. Nope, he went home for a month and said he just couldn't move with his grandparents being old and having been away for so long. I moved here, and now live with his parents (and grandmother). Not happy. I wish he could grow up and get out!! We could afford to move out down south like we planned, but not here.
lifeislove88 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I'm trying to decide if its worth it. I want to have some kind of future planned out. Which is hard to do when he doesn't know if and when he will move away. I need to be closer to MY family. I hope you can convince him! Try to lay out the pros and cons. The worst that can happen is he decides to move back. He can call and fly to see his mom still!
ChessPieceFace Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 The guy I've been talking too him and I have been talking about one us coming out for a visit and moving way later. But now he's unsure on if he wants to move down here because he says his mom has been going to the hospital a lot so he may not want to move away due to his mom. Not to be a bitch but come on your a grown man you can't make your own choices why live at home your whole life and have to worry about taking care of your mom? What about me? I would like for us to have a life together and live together too. ... So the guy you've been talking to should abandon his hospitalized mother just to move in with you. Stunning.
Minneloa Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 The guy I've been talking too him and I have been talking about one us coming out for a visit and moving way later. But now he's unsure on if he wants to move down here because he says his mom has been going to the hospital a lot so he may not want to move away due to his mom. Not to be a bitch but come on your a grown man you can't make your own choices why live at home your whole life and have to worry about taking care of your mom? What about me? I would like for us to have a life together and live together too. Wait, don't you live at home as well?
FitChick Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Is this the ex-con you wrote about on another thread? The one who is on probation, which is why he can't move away from his parole officer?
Author napy666 Posted July 9, 2013 Author Posted July 9, 2013 Yes it was the ex con but this was going to be for after he got off probation and was free to do whatever he wanted haha. But it turns out him and I are no longer talking. He was talking to me and another girl and wasn't sure on who he wanted so he ended up just wanting to be single.
FitChick Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 Since you seem to be attracted to prisons, at least date a prison GUARD who has a job. 1
clia Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 The guy I've been talking too him and I have been talking about one us coming out for a visit and moving way later. But now he's unsure on if he wants to move down here because he says his mom has been going to the hospital a lot so he may not want to move away due to his mom. Not to be a bitch but come on your a grown man you can't make your own choices why live at home your whole life and have to worry about taking care of your mom? What about me? I would like for us to have a life together and live together too. Aren't you also living at home? Were you planning for him to move into your parents' house? How do they feel about you inviting ex-cons into their home so you can "have a life together and live together"?
Author napy666 Posted July 10, 2013 Author Posted July 10, 2013 In the end he found another girl he wanted to be with over me. So screw him i don't need him.
snowflakes88 Posted July 11, 2013 Posted July 11, 2013 Uh, you live at home w/no job and mooch off your mom. You aren't exactly grown up yourself.
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