Mws Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I was wondering if it is possible to ever win a ex back through friendship alone at the start? Initially we started out as friends and became the best relationship i have ever had, until the very end and **** just blew up so horrible. I think we both need space away from eachother. But i do have hopes that one day we will be like we use to. Is this only a dream or is it possible. I would go the distance for this particular girl no matter what. That is not to say i wont be dating during this time and seeing what else is out there but deep down i sort of believe she might be the one. Please tell me if i am stupid for wanting to even try this.
Tenderheartbear Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I agree with AGH...you never know what can happen in the future. Take this time to work on yourself in a positive way. Focus on your own happiness. Time will pass and nature will take its course.
AnchorSails Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I certainly hope so... I have a friend who was in a similar situation as I currently am in, and it gives me hope that things could work out. Instead of doing no contact, they just started over as friends and about half a year later they realized they were supposed to be together.
StrongLass Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I was wondering if it is possible to ever win a ex back through friendship alone at the start? Technically yes it is possible....though I would HIGHLY advise against it for the sake of your own sanity. Initially we started out as friends and became the best relationship i have ever had, until the very end and **** just blew up so horrible. Whatever caused things to go straight to he11 needs to be addressed directly for your relationship to ever have a shot again if you both decide to give it another try. I would go the distance for this particular girl no matter what. That is not to say i wont be dating during this time and seeing what else is out there but deep down i sort of believe she might be the one. See those two bolded parts? Those contradict each other. Either you want space to do your own thing or you want her. You need to decide which you want more. Please tell me if i am stupid for wanting to even try this. Stupid? Maybe. Human? Definitely. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 I certainly hope so... I have a friend who was in a similar situation as I currently am in, and it gives me hope that things could work out. Instead of doing no contact, they just started over as friends and about half a year later they realized they were supposed to be together. That's definitely the exception to the rule. There almost always needs to be some sort of separation for a while before re-engaging. As for the OP, you have to be friendly with an ex if you want to get back with them. But friends? Not advisable, especially not in the immediate aftermath of the break.
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