GoBomb36 Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 Recently, I got pretty close to a client of mine at the gym, and feelings started to bloom between us. I was out of a relationship, and she had been on and off with her ex for some time, I think since August. She told me that she always seemed to want to go back to her ex. And of course, he saw her drifting away, so he ia trying to reel her back in. I know love is tough, but dang. She ended up seeing him this past week, and she came to see me last night. We kissed, and she loved it. Well, she tells me on the phone later that night she wants to work on things with her ex, and I'm distracting that from happening. I know he's going to revert to his old ways and go back to what he's done to her before. Heck, he even moved out of a house with her to go live with 3 other girls. Its a matter of time before she has it done to her again, and probably misses me. I think I'm going to run into her at the gym tonight. Any suggestions guys? Can't say I don't want her to miss me...she says the timing here is just bad. Open for any and all suggestions. Thanks!
RebelWithoutACause Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 The only reasonable suggestion is to move on from her. She's not ready to be with you and she's told you that. There is nothing else you can do. Be polite if you see her at the gym but don't go out of your way to be around her. She knows, if she wants to be with you, she'll have to get rid of the ex. And she's clearly chosen not to do that. If I were to be blunt I'd say essentially she's chosen him over you. Time to move on.
Author GoBomb36 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 That's essentially how it sounds. It sucks, but it's good to hear it from someone else sometimes. I guess there will always be that sense of hope. Kinda wack she would choose him over me regarding the circumstances
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