princess66666 Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 hung out with a new guy last night. i thought he was pretty cool and would be interested in being friends and/or dating. we made a lot of eye contact during the date and he seemed interested in my life. i was in a hurry to get home though, so i was the one who had to pull him up by saying we should leave the restaurant... afterwards we stood outside the restaurant briefly and we looked at each other. i said, "i'm going that way". he lived the other direction and said, "i'm going that way". i hugged him and said, "nice meeting you" and he repeated the phrase to me. then he asked, "keep in touch?" i said, "yeah, for sure" and left. today i changed my phone number and texted him, "hey it's girl from last night. here's my number if you want it :)" do you guys think he'll contact me again? i either want to close him off in my mind or anticipate seeing him again. i HATE uncertainty.
BluEyeL Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 Unfortunately I have no idea. You'll have to wait. If no reply within 48 h, then no. 1
Author princess66666 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 yeah me neither and it's bothering me. usually keep in touch means, "yeah, i wasn't feeling it" right?
BluEyeL Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 yeah me neither and it's bothering me. usually keep in touch means, "yeah, i wasn't feeling it" right? Yes, but you never know.
Lansing Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 If I was the guy, I might have got the sense that you weren't "into it" . Where did you two meet? If you met online then he doesn't have any context/reason to really keep in contact with you if he felt you weren't into him. However, the fact that you sent him your new number would probably mean that he knows you still want to keep in touch. I met this girl briefly last year at an event and saw her again a few weeks ago at another event and got to talking to her and got her contact info this time and saw her a few days ago. Evening was nice, I was thinking more "friendly" from the start but she ended the night by saying "keep in touch".. I think the "keep in touch" thing is kind of a test of the other's person's interest level. Like almost an invitation for the other person to make some effort. I would leave it for a week and if you don't hear from him and are cool with just "friends" with him then maybe initiate contact again. If it is a guy from Online Dating then I would probably just forget about it.
Author princess66666 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 yeah, sometimes people tell me they think i'm not "into it," even when i am. i think it's just my natural shyness. we did meet online
forgetmenot75 Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 Did he reply to you the text? Did he usually reply your texts? Wait a couple days to see whether he contacts you or not. Also, did he try to kiss you?
Author princess66666 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 hasn't replied yet, but i know he's REALLY busy with work... we only texted right before we met up. no, i initiated the hug. he did rub my back though... until i pulled away.
Author princess66666 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 yeah we texted right before meeting up yesterday. i changed my number today, so i sent him the new one
Author princess66666 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 ok, he just said, "nice thanks. now i can stalk you. just kidding :)" do i reply or no? is this like "end of conversation" text?
MidwestUSA Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 Reply. Tell him you have better stalking skills than him. He probably got the vibe that you weren't all that interested because A) you had to leave the date early, and B) you pulled away from a back rub. Go for it!
Author princess66666 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 well, i didn't leave early... the waiter gave us the bill, he signed, and i was just the one who initiated the leaving, because he was just sitting there lol.
forgetmenot75 Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 well, i didn't leave early... the waiter gave us the bill, he signed, and i was just the one who initiated the leaving, because he was just sitting there lol. you did really well! It's perfect to look busy and wanted to leave early, so he knows you're not clingy. Now, just reply his last text with a smiley face, and let him to do the hard work. Or just reply: I'd love you to stalk me Be flirty, be friendly, let him to take the initiative!! 1
shexy Posted July 9, 2013 Posted July 9, 2013 ok, he just said, "nice thanks. now i can stalk you. just kidding :)" do i reply or no? is this like "end of conversation" text? I don't mean to sound like an a=hole, but how old are you? You sound really really really insecure, not shy. There's a big difference. You really need to relax, it was just one date. It's OK. Relax.
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