starlet86 Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 So me and my ex were getting along ok and trying to work out what to do next and everything seemed ok. Then I got a little paranoid, thought too much in to something and basically acted like a crazy person. He told me to stop, this isn't how he wanted things and that it was this behaviour that would push him away. I didn't stop though. I went crazy on him one time too many and he slapped me with NC. I have texted and apologised and still nothing. In work he looks past me or uses a junior to relay messages. It is horrible. He was the one who kept going on and on and on about how much he hates it when we don't talk and how he wants a fresh start for us and then BOOM! He goes NC on me. The real question is, when will I learn this guy is playing me!?
Tenderheartbear Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 It sounds like you guys both need space. NC on both ends might be the best thing right now until all the emotion calms down. I know it's hard since you guys work in the same place but you have to give him a chance to miss you. If he was serious about making a fresh start then he will reach out. Just be calm so that he actually wants to.
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