emailed ex fiance I will give back ring/remove my stuff. He wont respond!

[jenny2682]

Long and short of it...

 

My fiance ended it 3 weeks ago while I was going through a MS attack. I told him I didn't want to talk to him because of my VERY ill health. There was no point in it. He was done, over and had been avoiding me while I was very sick.

 

I had to go to the house on Saturday to pick up very expensive medicine shots. I let him know that I was doing it. While I was there for 3 minutes, very cold no talking no hints of working on anything.

 

When I got home I sent him an email saying sorry for it not working out. Told him he helped me in many ways..thanked him for individual things he had done for me. Said I would get my furniture, leave stuff I didn't need/have place for (washer/dryer, blinds). Said I could pay him a check for my cell phone. Told him I thought he should have ring back.

 

No response. None at all. How long before I contact him again? I mean if it is over I don't want to play games. I said in email not worth it to prolong anything. Said I could get this done in the next 2-3 weeks, just let me know the best time. I mean he is paying for the phones. The ring was a lot of money. Unless he wants to keep furniture (which there is no way). The ring a phone is worth more than furniture. Why, oh why is he being so hard headed??

 

The worse thing for MS is stress. Should I just plan on going over there and doing it without his permission?

[AllTooWell]

No.

 

 

Stop contacting him. He didn't reply. Leave him alone. If he hasn't requested anything be returned, relax about it.

 

How urgently do you need this furniture? Are you doing it because you want an excuse to see him?

 

 

If it is that urgent that you get your stuff? If yes, have a mutual friend do it. Send them with a list of what you want, and give them the ring. Have them go to the house WHEN YOUR FIANCE IS HOME or with the key and remove the items. You do not go with your friend. You stay at home, away from this situation.