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Not his first option but I like him very much


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Yes, still married I suppose since she cheated on him last month...

 

You seem to care a little too much when you are not looking for anything serious. He's a married man looking to date after 1 month of separation. Just do whatever you feel like. It's not like this is ever going to be a deep relationship. I mean, do you put so much thought about renting a car?

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Oh, he's separated!

 

People will tell you anything you need to hear. Just because "he says" he's separated, just because "he says" his wife cheated on him, doesn't mean that is the truth. I've met two men online and both claimed to be separated only to turn out that they were separated in their own heads.

 

And even if a man is separated, and so recently separated 1) isn't looking to get tied down again 2) if he is, isn't healthy for you 3) has to be long divorced before he will even consider getting serious again 4) should be divorced first because there is a likelihood that he could go back to his wife. The odds are stacked against you.

 

You lack sound judgment and seem to just blindly walk into situations just because you want to be rescued. I have to say that you're going to hurt yourself again if you keep chasing unavailable men.

 

If you want nothing serious, you wouldn't be so hung up on him. The fact that you already like him is a huge reason why you should stop engaging (if he reaches out) because you are going to get hurt again.

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