aloneinaz Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 So, I met a girl on POF. We emailed then texted. We have the same humor and she's very funny. Great chemistry. We talked then met last night. OMG.. immediate attraction, chemistry and connection. Within 90 minutes were making out in the bar. Great kisser as well. We go to her car and make out more. We decide to go to my house down the street to relax. We're there and making out then go to the bedroom to lay on the bed. Great conversation, hard kissing, a little grooping, etc. No sex. We're both shocked at our chemistry and connection. She asks if I want to see her again and I said of course. She said how about Tuesday. She read my face and saw that I had a date which I did. I told her I'd cancel it to see her again. Again, just immediate chemistry. She drives home, texts me what a great time, etc.. We text today for 15 minutes. She wants more detail on what I thought of her and the date. I ask her to come over so I can see her and I'd tell her more. We go back and forth and she says she wants to but can't. This goes on for about 10 texts. Finally, she says she's going to the movies with her kids then to a pound to look at rescued animals. I said ok.. She doesn't reply. I then text he 15 minutes later telling her I understand she already had commitments and i was just being greedy wanting to see her again. It's been four hours and she hasn't replied. I hope I didn't scare her off by putting to much pressure to come over so we can see each other. Am I just being paranoid? I know I can't text her again and need to wait to hear from her. Thoughts?
hoping2heal Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 You're just being paranoid. She's just busy with her kids/prior commitments. Nothing to worry about right now. Congrats on meeting someone you're really into
clia Posted July 7, 2013 Posted July 7, 2013 Two things: 1. Your text didn't require a reply. 2. She told you she had plans with her kids. Chill out, or you will blow it!
Author aloneinaz Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 Thank you for the replies! I'm just pissed at myself for pushing her to come over for 30 minutes or an hour. She lives like 7 minutes from me. I thought I could sell her into coming over. I'm just paranoid like crazy that I scared her off being too pushy. I REALLY like her and have felt this much connection since my ex.. OOOHHHHH i hope she's just playing it cool and isn't mad at me. !
Ami1uwant Posted July 8, 2013 Posted July 8, 2013 relax and breathe..... did you tell her about this other date on tuesday? Remember she has kids so dont rush her into a relationship...she has kid responsibilities so work around her schedule on when she is available and dont expect her to be last minute/impulsive.....she cant be because of kids.
Author aloneinaz Posted July 8, 2013 Author Posted July 8, 2013 Great advice and opinions. I really appreciate them. You were all right. She did text me at 7pm. Then again at 745 then at 755. I was at a female friends house and did see the texts till 810. By the time I got back to her, I think she was a bit annoyed. I called her when I got home and she said she was going to come over for 30 minutes or an hour at 7pm but I wasn't home. DOH! anyway, thanks again to those who gave me their opinion.
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